This post is aimed at making the road, well travelled by others, easier for a new punter. While this post is initiated by me, it is not owned by me, so welcome any and all constructive contributions by others, ladies and punters alike.

GENERAL

1. Search, Search and Search again - this website and forum has been going on for a long time so there are not many questions that have not been asked before. All newbies are welcomed, but it can get irritating when the same stock questions are asked before checking out the web site forum using the search facility.

2. While you are paying for a service, going into a punt with an arrogant and/or disrespectful attitude is going to hurt your experience. The ladies are just human beings trying to make a living in a very difficult business so treat them with respect and equally expect the same level of respect i.e "what you give is what you get".

3. Following on theme of above, if a lady has intentionally treated you with disrespect or even misled you, it is your right to walk away and pay her nothing or a nominal amount just for her time, rather than the full fee. Some things that punters generally complain about are (1) lady continuously on the phone with other punters (2) pay for the hour but lady want to cut it to 15/30 mins (3) lady stated certain services on phone but different in real life (4) lady on her period but did not disclose (5) lady in pictures on profile different to lady in real life (6) lady "unavailable" but how about friend instead (7) lady is a drug addict but did not disclose (8) venue is not private at all.

4. Some ladies and areas are definite no-gos. Read reviews and work out the safety of a lady and/or venue and/or area before going. Drug addicts tend to work together and be controlled by drug pushers so high level of danger. Some areas are known by reputation to be danger areas so check the ones that you would frequent.

5. There has been a lot of healthy (but sometimes very personal) discussions about some ladies having racial/nationality preference. Like it or not, the lady has a right to make choices - what the lady does not have the right to do is not disclose it, and then turn a person away at the door. If this is important to you, make sure that in your upfront conversation with the lady, you ask the right questions and she discloses her preferences.

6. A place that offers massages only purposefully does not want to get into trouble with the law in terms of offering/promoting prostitution. Some massage ladies do offer additional services to supplement their income but discretely, and typically to regular punters who they can trust. Massage venue owners/managers trawl the forum so be very careful with letting on publicly about extra services you received - rather exchange that via private messages/mail and make sure that the person asking is a known punter on the forum (and not the massage owner).

PUNTERS IN RELATIONSHIP

1. Cellphone is prime means of communicating so get yourself a different punting specific pay-as-you use SIM card. Make sure that any postal and email details you provide on the application are not your real addresses to prevent marketing/billing enquiries being inadvertently sent to your real addresses.

2. Careful about creating a paper trail - many a poor punter has been caught out by a hotel receipt, garage petrol slip, entry in their tracker "last visits" log. Some poor fellow recently got outed by a photograph that he took of a WG on his phone. So, always take time after a punt to retrace your steps and eliminate incriminating evidence.

3. When visiting a venue, try and take nothing but cash with you into the venue, even if you leave all your valuables in your car. Most ladies are trustworthy but there is the occasional theft here and there.

4. Consider your state of hygiene when visiting a lady. If needs be, ask to have a wash as it can only help things with the lady. The hygiene equally applies to the lady, you should reasonably expect a lady to wash and clean herself before your visit.

5. Punting is a crime but much has been in the forum said about the rights of a punter, and under what circumstances cops can arrest you or not. If ever caught up in such a situation, a punter in a relationship has to think carefully about the risks of being outed to a partner, so the acceptable risks for a punter in a partnership versus not are different. Always take a ride past a venue before going in to scout out the area - once again, check out what other punters are saying about a venue and area.

THE LADIES

1. The ladies vary with the type of services that they offer. They also vary with the level of services detail on their profile. So if you have a special fancy, first discuss this with the lady ahead of time. Even if you read something on a post, rather check with the lady as she might give different services to regulars than to a newbie/unknown.

2. Ladies that have requested their comments to be disabled do so because of a pattern of negative reviews which has hurt their business. Any lady that has her comments facility disabled must be treated with caution.

3. Some ladies have different profiles - there are threads around the reasons. There is no real harm other than it creates "noise" on the website e.g. 300 different profiles but some are multiples.

4. Some of the ladies are not real women, they are originally men who have had operations(hence term post-op to transform them into females, to extent of replacing male with female genitalia. The website does not differentiate between real ladies and post-ops so unless you look carefully at the pics or read posts, you might be none the wiser. This entry is not aimed at discriminating against them, and some of them look like the real deal, and provide services on par with real women, but this more to raise awareness, as one would not want a new naive punter to be caught unaware.

REVIEWS

1. Post reviews after each visit, your views and experiences will help others, as much as you benefit from reviews of others - "one for all and all for one".

2. After a visit, give time for the blood to move from the one head to the other before doing a review. Give a honest, fair but objective review - do not confuse different measures. Read the post thread Reviews: The Good the Bad and the Ugly for guidelines.

3. Spend time reading reviews about ladies before venturing out. Check out the reviews from punters who are more experienced and trusted by others and follow them.

4. The forum has it's fair share of fake reviews by ladies and pimps, and even in some cases by punters who are trying to help out a lady. Treat with caution reviews done by punters who joined recently and have very few punts against their name. Also look out for the sneaky people who register and let their profiles sit idle for a long time, and then use them strategically now and then. Rule of thumb is that if a reviewer has few reviews/posts against their name then treat with caution, no matter how long the "punter" has been registered.

@porralover well done with this thread, very well compiled.

Nice...Thanks mate!

And do not ask us what to do if you fall in love with a WG.

Rocco the answer to that is RUN!!!!!

Very fast and very far.

Ad to further help new punters to navigate through the terminology, here are some common Terms and Definitions one might come across in conversations. Once again, happy for others to edit or add to it.

69 - Simultaneous fellatio and cunnilingus.
A - Anal sex.
AC/DC - Bisexual.
A-levels - Anal sex.
Anilingus - Licking someone's anus. Many prostitutes will allow you to do this to them, but far fewer will do it to you.
AWO - Anal without a condom.
Bareback - Sex Without a condom.
BBBF - Bareback butt fuck.
BBBJ - Bareback blow job.
BBF - Bareback fuck.
BBW - Big beautiful woman.
BDSM - Bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism.
BJ - Blow job. A strange term for fellatio.
Brown shower - Another name for hardsports.
Brut service Facial, cumming over the prostitutes ( Splash it all over )
CIM - Come in mouth.
Completion Orgasm. - For example, OWO to completion means until you cum.
Covered - With a condom.
Cowgirl - A position for sexual intercourse - the man on his back, the woman sitting atop.
CP - Corporal punishment. You used to be able to get this in return for stealing things, but it doesn't work that way any more.
Creampie - Ejaculation in the vagina (or anus) without a condom.
Credit card swipe - That is where, during a massage, where the client is on their front, the lady oils the anus and surrounds and then either takes a stiff finger or whole hand and goes from top to bottom of the crease between the cheeks, similar to swiping a credit card.
Cross Dresser - Man who likes to dress in woman clothing.
Cum facial - Same as facial.
Cunnilingus - Pussy-licking. oral of the vagina
Doggie style - A position for sexual intercourse - the woman on her knees, the man entering from behind.
DP - Double penetration - one penis in the vagina, another in the anus.
DT = Deep Throat
Facial - This is where you spunk over her face.
Fellatio - Cock-sucking.
Fisting - The art of inserting the whole hand inside the vagina or anus
FOC - Free of charge.
FR - Field report, A written report of an experience with a prostitute
French - French sex. Another term for fellatio.
French - kissing Deep kissing, tongue kissing.
FS - Sometimes means full sex, but sometimes means full service.
Full - service Bit vague, but generally means full sex and fellatio.
Full sex - Vaginal intercourse.
Full strip - Should mean that she takes all her clothes off - but beware that she may have a different idea of the meaning.
FWO - French without [a condom]. Same as OWO or BBBJ.
Gang-bang - An occasion on which several men successively have sexual intercourse with one woman, Usually organised parties
GFE - The prostitute provide a girlfriend type experience, ( Treats you like her girlfriend,kissing, etc)
Golden shower - Another name for watersports.
Greek - Anal sex.
Hardsports - Defaecation in a sexual context. Usually means that the prostitute shits over the client, or at least for the client to watch.
HE - Happy Ending
HJ - Hand-job. Same as HR.
hobby - The "hobby" is punting
hobbyist - Euphemism for a man who frequents prostitutes. A (habitual) punter.
HR - Hand relief. Same as HJ.
H/S - Hardsports.
Incall - Where the client visits the prostitute. Opposite of outcall. - (But beware that the term "incall" is frequently misused - to mean an outcall to the client's home.)
KWT - Kissing with Tongue.
Massage parlour - Offers a massage. Different to a brothel which is illegal in South Africa.
MFS - Massage and full sex.
MILF - Mom/Mother I'd Like to Fuck.
MishMissionary position -(woman on her back, man on top facing her).
MMF - A male-male-female threesome.
"O" - Oral sex.
O-levels - Oral sex.
Oral - Oral sex. Either fellatio or cunnilingus - usually the former in the context of punter talk.
OTK - Over the knee (spanking).
Outcall - Where the prostitute visits the client's home or hotel. Opposite of incall.
OWO - Oral without [a condom]. Same as FWO or BBBJ.
Pearl necklace - This is where you spunk over her breasts/shoulders/neck.
PM - Prostate Massage the insertion of finger or other instrument into the anus to stimulate the prostate gland.
Post-Op - Transsexual who has had full set of operations to extent of removing male genitalia
PSE - Porn Star Experience. A term used to describe a sexual encouter where the partner exhibited certain porn-like characteristics. Usually including such things as: Talking Dirty,CIM (cum in mouth), a general knowledge of sexual positions and willingness to sexually please.
Provider - A prostitute.
Punter - A prostitute's client.
Reverse - Means the opposite way round to that which is most common between a prostitute and her client. For example, "reverse oral" means cunnilingus and "reverse massage" means the client massaging the prostitute.
Rimming - when one person licks and kisses their partner's anus like oral sex on a female, except to the anus instead of the vagina
RLD - Red-light district.
Russian - A tit fuck.
Sandwich - Another term for DP.
Scat - Another term for hardsports.
Shemale - Also know as Ladyboy, Tranny or Transsexual. A man who has female aspirations, and has had breast implants and hormones, and typically dresses like lady all the time. Different to a cross dresser.
SexOn - its own often means vaginal intercourse.
Sixty-nine - See 69.
SM - Sado-masochism. See also BDSM
Solid sports - Another term for hardsports.
SP - Sex Provider/Service Provider.
Snowballing - The action of kissing to exchange cum immediately after CIM.
Spoons - A position for sexual intercouse - both partners lying on their side, with the man behind the woman.
Straight sex - Vaginal intercourse.
Swallows - Means that she swallows your cum.
SWO - Sex without [a condom]. Same as BBF.
TLC - Tender loving care.
Uncovered - Without a condom.
VFM - Value for money.
Watersports - Urination in a sexual context. Usually means that the prostitute pisses over the client, or at least for the client to watch.
WG - Working Girl, same as prostitute
With - Often means "with a condom".
Without - Often means "without a condom".
Working girl - Euphemism for a prostitute.
W/S - Watersports.

On P**T some of the girls offer a service "bothways". Anybody has any idea of what that is?

@fdWaal - Some might define it as offering both anal and straight sex, but I have always understood it to be a lady that swings both ways - does ladies and men.

yes..can somebody confirm...

Bothways= "Vaginal and Anal" penetration ..or is it
"both Males and Females preferred"?