Ok need advise I've seen this indian lady a divorcee much older than me she's in her mid 40's me in mid to late 30's and I've got such a physical attraction to her. I've gotten her no directly from her but she's kinda been avoiding me. Any advice on how to get a dat with her?

Ask her to a dinner chat and see .....

A nice note and a flower to ask for dinner? She could just say yes or no

Lay back, don't contact her for another month. Zero contact. No whatsapp messages or phone calls. Then when you contact her again, don't come on strong, keep it lite,no serious talk. Ask her out for coffee. After the date, only call her after about a week. Ask her on another date,maybe dinner or drinks. Again keep it lite. If things go well, you can make your move.

Reason for my advice is, she's already avoiding you, you have to backtrack and get her to be interested again,otherwise you'll be dead in the water if you aren't already. Phoning her for a date now or pitching with flowers will be detrimental.

longjon. That sounds like good advice. But we don't know why shes been avoiding him? Cant he just start with small talk? a Hi when he see her. And till he see shes more open minded to have a small talk, ask her how her day has been or something? Then after a while ask her out for a cold drink or something(I read more in a msg if someone ask me for coffee). Always keep it light. Everything will work out as it should.

She's seen his calls, chances are she's avoiding him because she is not interested enough at this stage. If she was and there really was a valid reason, she would definitely have sent him a message to explain. She's had plenty time. Or even if there is a valid reason, it must be serious. Either way, taking a step back is the way to go. It's very difficult especially when you really like someone, but you've really got to bite the bullet and get her interest in you up as well before you make a move and you can't do that by constant contact.

Agree. Let her make the first move then.

Thanks guys. Was total lust and starstruck day I saw her which was more than 8 years ago and could'nt believe when I heard her age and age of her daughter who should be around early twenties now. Back than she was in her late to thirties and me mid twenties.

The site you should seek such advise would be more like a Ask Aunty Annie ....
But if you not winning with the mother ... go for the daughter .. she is of legal age now .
Sorry had it been a different site I would have probably given different advise .... or maybe not