On 2024-10-18 06:33:40 Kooni said:
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In negotiating, you inderectly telling the lady, she is not worth her price, and changes are she will not deliver to the standard you require.
I think the price is set on what they think they can get from customers and thus it is worth.
It's can never be the ladies worth because let's face it, every lady believes she's priceless and she is to someone right. There's someone out there thinking that she's priceless too.
What it comes down to is what the punter thinks and that is different to everyone. Someone getting fuckall or only meets swamp donkeys IRL will think R10K is cheap for an hour with a hot mg but someone pulling 10's and only punting to avoid dealing with conversation and issues beyond an hour will think it's worth nudda but willing to pay a bit for the convenience of being able to just leave when you're done without worrying about feelings and shit.
Same with a wg that is genuinely worth R3K but on that day, it's 10pm, her electricity ran out, and she needs something to carry her to the next day or whatever and some guy offers her R1k. She's fully entitled to take it and it doesn't change her worth but she scores what she needs, puts her electricity and goes to bed after the punt and he scores a great punt. Her fridge things aren't going for, the security lights are on, the geyser water is hot for her and the kids to shower and she can make breakfast and lunch so send the kids off to school instead of waiting for the R3K til midnight in the dark that never came and having a shit morning and a shit day ahead.
Likewise , there's some great punts at R1,200 that you're happily punting. There's one chick at R1,500 that you never see because of the price. You will never see her while merrily punting those other sweethearts and she'll never see you because of that. But if you offer her R1,200 and she accepts, you might find another sweetheart to book snd she gets another client. You may even decide that she is so much better and worth the R1,500 and then book on the normal rates but it will only happen if given the chance to happen.
So it's more about finding the middle ground (if there is) where both see it as a win. Either party is entitled to say no thanks and walk away. It's not forcing anyone to do or accept anything.
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