I really am at a loss here. Let me set the scene: Friday afternoon, I made contact with one of the ladies on the site. I was genuinely complimentary and respectful towards her. I requested a custom video- The video was fairly mainstream, a little tease and self play but I also checked she was comfortable with it first. We agreed to everything, including the price- which was quite a handsome amount: R1000 for a 15min video.
Now, I'm well aware of the vast range of services I could get at that rate- it wasn't naivety, it was a purposeful choice to support a local lady.
As we chatted, she expressed some social difficulties and asked if I'd be willing to support her by purchasing more content- I obliged. She asked for some time to make my video and I understand her day had prior commitments- again, I obliged.

So essentially, there she was- set up with a respectful, complimentary, compassionate guy who genuinely wanted to support her. Moreover, the potential for a repeat customer.

I'm sure you can guess how this ends- empty promises, excuses and close to 3 days later still no video! I'm just a bit flabbergasted- why not just take a few minutes and make the video? Why burn this bridge? Also, souring the pond for other, more honest ladies.
More outrageous still, every few hours she continues to post on the advertiser forum.

Please name and shame!

It's absolute BS that Sps STILL have the audacity to treat their clients this way.

It reflects negatively on ALL of us.

The SP in question can then respond and state her side if she'd like, but this has got to stop!
If you don't want to honor a commitment, don't freaking take their money.

Thank you

Sadly, this is not a world for honest people. There are scammers everywhere - online, and with every type of contractor. The more you get scammed and get let down, the less likely you are to be trusting. I am at a point where I deal with a handful of honest people and it takes a lot for new people to enter my circle of trust.

This is unfortunately not a unique situation. I have experienced this multiple times with multiple different ladies. I hear what you are saying about wanting to support your local ladies. I have been burned by content purchasing in exactly the same way. Either by not receiving the promised and agreed upon goods or what you receive is far inferior to what was advertised. It is true that there is an infinite array of free porn. But for many of us, content purchasing is a way of establishing first contact and building up a connection prior to a meeting. So if the experience with the content is bad, I would be very unlikely to pursue any kind of booking.

Very easy solution. Stop buying content. There is much better quality for free on the internet. You can thank me later.

I'd request to visit the lady and film the content requested in person....how can she say no?

On 2024-10-21 18:47:18 catalyst52 said:
Sadly, this is not a world for honest people. There are scammers everywhere - online, and with every type of contractor. The more you get scammed and get let down, the less likely you are to be trusting. I am at a point where I deal with a handful of honest people and it takes a lot for new people to enter my circle of trust.

I fully support this. Not only from this industry but I have learnt over the years that the small/ local folks (There lives depend on good service)

So I support local.

I will give an expensive example. My car came up with a "Gearbox" fault light and went into limp mode (The car, not me). I took it to the agents and they ran diagnostics, not free either, to tell me that the clutches need to be replaced. The workshop manager told me, in his exact words, that one of these mamparas who don't feel like working most days are going to work on your car. Stock standard repair price is R90k excl.

Rather take it to XYZ, he will be less than half price and he is a gearbox specialist

So yes there are loads of scammers etc. stick to trust worthy people

I agree with Angie - you have to name and shame this SP otherwise this thread is unfortunately worthless.

You have to help us by not falling into the trap that you have just fallen into. I appreciate the fact that you were willing to assist her by buying her content - something that people do.

But when the SP scams you, we have to out then so
1) others are made aware; AND
2) ESA can deal with their scamming arses

On 2024-10-21 22:01:54 Vrik said:
Very easy solution. Stop buying content. There is much better quality for free on the internet. You can thank me later.

What he said....not sure when a escort site turned into OnlyFans anyway

I understand the content idea during COVID period

ESA is a advertising platform - not a policing platform

Yes if there is grand misuse of the platform they will get involved but the day to day heckling and bitching is really not their issue

Sorry ESA for over stepping the line here