Good morning ladies and gentleman, hope everyone is having a good Monday . Just a quick question

So I have been hanging out with this lady recently. She just recovered from a break up and a toxic relationship.

This past week , we've spent a lot of time with each other and she came over to visit me everyday. This weekend we had dinner on 2 days and she left very late .

She did get abit cuddly when she fell asleep and said she really enjoys spending time with me .
And she also said that she knows why her ex said he hated me when tho he doesn't know me , the reason being is that she was with me .

Do you think she definitely likes me or is she using me as a rebound or will am I in the friend zone

Rebound and in need of comfort.

In all cases pain needs to be dealt with first before entering with a right mindset into any other relationship for the RIGHT reasons.

Exceptions are far and few between.

RB.

If you don't, someone else will. That's all I'm saying

On 2024-10-28 09:02:47 shoeguy said:
If you don't, someone else will. That's all I'm saying

What?

Fuck her?

RB

Asking for actual real-life relationship/ personal advice here is a terrible, terrible idea. That's all I'm saying.

On 2024-10-28 09:02:47 shoeguy said:
If you don't, someone else will. That's all I'm saying

Yes you could try fuck her now, and she could maybe even go with it in the moment, but the minute she wakes up she will likely never talk to you again. So I guess your course of action should just depend on what exactly you want out of this with her - do you just wanna fuck her once and both move on or do you like like like her and want something more? If it's the latter then I suggest you stay away from her for a bit while she is going through the post breakup shit and remain slightly aloof towards her.

This way, should she actually not get back with her ex (which im sorry but is the most likely outcome here like 90% of the time) then you will hopefully have successfully circumnavigated the friend zone and instead, become someone whom she feels the need to impress which, if all goes well, should place you squarely in "possible sexual conquest" realm..

Just a thought, hope it helps :)
Mwa xx

On 2024-10-28 09:15:27 JP82 said:
Asking for actual real-life relationship/ personal advice here is a terrible, terrible idea. That's all I'm saying.

Only if he listens to the men..

On 2024-10-28 09:15:27 JP82 said:
Asking for actual real-life relationship/ personal advice here is a terrible, terrible idea. That's all I'm saying.

Why?

RB.

On 2024-10-28 09:20:00 Rachel said:
On 2024-10-28 09:15:27 JP82 said: Asking for actual real-life relationship/ personal advice here is a terrible, terrible idea. That's all I'm saying.

Only if he listens to the men..

I 100% agree that the guys advice will be worse, but there are definitely more than enough unstable ladies around these parts to make taking even advice from only the SP's a very bad idea.

Yeah but also using ones own judgement and common sense to discriminate between what is likely good or bad advice can also be helpful in this, and most situations actually.. Seeing what most girls seem to (dis)agree with and staying away from the usual shit talkers and time waisters etc should help lead one to some kind of sensible conclusion.

Once again just my 2c..
Peace xx