I've been to Benjamins over the past couple of years, and I enjoy the place.

I just want to make sure that the ladies that work there are all of age, as they seem to be quite young?

Other than that, great joint.

A warning given.

A concern shared...and hopefully sincere and not a competitor or bitter SP looking to destroy Benjamin's.



To bring to attention the bottom thread and ALL the comments made.

What age does not make one cringe to engage with sexually "busting ones nut"...?

What is "quite young"?


www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php

RB.

I'm not a bitter competitor. I'm just someone who wants everyone to be safe and I am very sincere. I want to continue using the establishment and want to avoid any issues. Thank you for taking the time to respond, I really appreciate it <3 I will check out the thread

Much love,
Nik_Nak

Yes, great place to visit, and my same concern regarding age.

Sometimes I decline due to my reservation on the age.

Perhaps I am just inexperienced in this sort of thing (age estimation), but my concerns are borne of fear really. The ladies at Benjamins are great - they seem to be around 18-21 - I could be very wrong in my age estimation, and I don't want to create any unnecessary criticism for any establishment. I really don't. I'm just looking for positive reinforcement and guidance from others who perhaps know more than me. I'm a supporter of the industry and good competition is good for everyone!

On 2024-11-04 11:53:26 ChittyBang said:
Yes, great place to visit, and my same concern regarding age.

Sometimes I decline due to my reservation on the age.

Thanks for taking the time to respond.

On 2024-11-04 11:56:29 Nik_Nak said:
On 2024-11-04 11:53:26 ChittyBang said: Yes, great place to visit, and my same concern regarding age.

Sometimes I decline due to my reservation on the age.

Thanks for taking the time to respond.

Question Nik_Nak....

When did you start punting?

RB.

I am getting a feeling there is a devil on the lose here...

And this post to be taken with a pinch of salt for the time being unless proven truthful.

Again....what be the "age " that makes one feel ok to "bust ones nut with"?

For me I DO NOT entertain younger gents at all. Just doesn't sit well with me nor care to break a young boys virginity. Does nothing for me.

In actual fact makes me sad because that boy is well on his way to judging any female that may be in his life to the experience he has had in a space where sexual engagement is driven by money, no inhibtions or strings and expectations required.

Poor him who thinks sex will be on tap with the woman he decides to have a relationship with or wed.

Life will teach one how to get the best out of ones partner, even when sex may not be as frequent as one would like....and then punting has a new purpose....neither judging nor condoning.

RB.

On 2024-11-04 12:21:11 Russian Bridgitte said:
I am getting a feeling there is a devil on the lose here...

And this post to be taken with a pinch of salt for the time being unless proven truthful.

Again....what be the "age " that makes one feel ok to "bust ones nut with"?

For me I DO NOT entertain younger gents at all. Just doesn't sit well with me nor care to break a young boys virginity. Does nothing for me.

In actual fact makes me sad because that boy is well on his way to judging any female that may be in his life to the experience he has had in a space where sexual engagement is driven by money, no inhibtions or strings and expectations required.

Poor him who thinks sex will be on tap with the woman he decides to have a relationship with or wed.

Life will teach one how to get the best out of ones partner, even when sex may not be as frequent as one would like....and then punting has a new purpose....neither judging nor condoning.

RB.

Ok thanks for sharing your inputs. I would love to hear from others as well.

On 2024-11-04 11:57:45 Russian Bridgitte said:
On 2024-11-04 11:56:29 Nik_Nak said: On 2024-11-04 11:53:26 ChittyBang said: Yes, great place to visit, and my same concern regarding age.

Sometimes I decline due to my reservation on the age.

Thanks for taking the time to respond.

Question Nik_Nak....

When did you start punting?

RB.

I think that you are misunderstanding - I said that my inexperience was in age estimation, not in the industry. I am closer in age to you than to younger people ;)

Btw I agree with you about the age of young men and sexual debut. Good on you for being selective about your clients and for recognising the importance of the first sexual experience. Much respect.