I see there are SPs who still text asking monetary favor. I used to help in the past but have come to realize that its not worth it most of the time.The same SPs who ask for favors would feel disrespected if a client ask for freebies.

I have heard too many sob stories here I'm kinda desensitized to them now.Back in the days when was naive I used to help thinking I would win the heart of an SP lol.But I have come to realize I am one of many they're asking favors from.

I have also come to realize that dating SPs never ends well and comes with drama (atleast for me)

Paying for the services I get is the way to go-NO strings attached! No drama! Indeed experience is the best teacher!

SPs who ask for favors are a nuisance!

Excellent thread. Yes over the years, I've learnt to stop 'granting favors' of the monetary kind. Had my wallet burnt way too many times with no return. And yet the next time I would visit her she would still charge full price - not that I wanted a discount, but it's the principal.
Just this morning, a WG I visited on Friday evening (at a venue,) who I thought I clicked with enough to give her my punting number, messaged me saying she needed transport money to get to work. What the hey. Immediate block.

Same here . The Sob stories are out of this world. Now I just stop responding when asked for money

I got the T-shirt.

When you realise the 'plea' for financial help was sent to all 1000 client numbers on her phone, you will feel less of a pull on your heart string to help.

Also, there is a fascinating level of ungratefulness you will experience from the whore you 'helped out' financially.
Give a loan. Give it some time and see if i'm wrong.
School fees. Keep it transactional.

She takes money, she is your whore, not your girlfriend, not your friend with benefits, not your fuck buddy.

Try the reverse. Ask for a 'free shag' and see how well that works out for you.

Normalise keeping it professional and have boundaries

Some of y'all trying to be friends or dating sometimes overstay the bookings living without paying
Or want attention from WG/SP's
So when she request a favour it means she's covering the time you've wasted on her e.t.c
Never lend a person money unless if you're willing to help

Life is too easy but we make it difficult
It's easy to avoid this

On 2025-03-12 17:35:59 Didi said:
Normalise keeping it professional and have boundaries

Some of y'all trying to be friends or dating sometimes overstay the bookings living without paying
Or want attention from WG/SP's
So when she request a favour it means she's covering the time you've wasted on her e.t.c
Never lend a person money unless if you're willing to help

Life is too easy but we make it difficult
It's easy to avoid this

Not necessarily, I have had WGs who I've never met but only enquired from hitting me up asking for money.

On 2025-03-12 17:59:10 Quey said:
On 2025-03-12 17:35:59 Didi said: Normalise keeping it professional and have boundaries

Some of y'all trying to be friends or dating sometimes overstay the bookings living without paying
Or want attention from WG/SP's
So when she request a favour it means she's covering the time you've wasted on her e.t.c
Never lend a person money unless if you're willing to help

Life is too easy but we make it difficult
It's easy to avoid this


Not necessarily, I have had WGs who I've never met but only enquired from hitting me up asking for money.

We all been a victims of that..another WG asked me to help her with money,mind you l never met her
A regular punter wanted money from me and he never invested on me
He used to book and pay the total amount sometimes not full amount,he thought l was dumb...l cut ties with him because of that
I can help a person who helps me
It has to be both ways

On 2025-03-12 17:59:10 Quey said:
On 2025-03-12 17:35:59 Didi said: Normalise keeping it professional and have boundaries

Some of y'all trying to be friends or dating sometimes overstay the bookings living without paying
Or want attention from WG/SP's
So when she request a favour it means she's covering the time you've wasted on her e.t.c
Never lend a person money unless if you're willing to help

Life is too easy but we make it difficult
It's easy to avoid this


Not necessarily, I have had WGs who I've never met but only enquired from hitting me up asking for money.

Sounds like your number was just saved after the enquiry and happened to be in the broadcast list that day?

On 2025-03-12 18:21:56 Jason_Nix said:
On 2025-03-12 17:59:10 Quey said: On 2025-03-12 17:35:59 Didi said: Normalise keeping it professional and have boundaries

Some of y'all trying to be friends or dating sometimes overstay the bookings living without paying
Or want attention from WG/SP's
So when she request a favour it means she's covering the time you've wasted on her e.t.c
Never lend a person money unless if you're willing to help

Life is too easy but we make it difficult
It's easy to avoid this


Not necessarily, I have had WGs who I've never met but only enquired from hitting me up asking for money.

Sounds like your number was just saved after the enquiry and happened to be in the broadcast list that day?

Probably true.

Sounds like your number was just saved after the enquiry and happened to be in the broadcast list that day?[/QUOTE]

The reason my punting phone goes off immediately after a punt and doesn't come on until when making the next booking. Best way to avoid lots of drama. In this business you just a customer, remember that.