Decided to share something which I am sure nobody can relate to.

So I have a small problem, yesterday I finally got a gap from the office and decided to go for a lovely massage and other stuff at La Femme.

All good, got to Pretoria at 1pm and stopped at a garage near Menlyn to call them.

Then it happened, I got cold feet, started to feel very indecisive, worrying that I am not built well enough for the super attractive ladies there, worrying that I should have de-haired the gonads, worrying that my beard would be too itchy for the lady, worrying if I had a pimply backside, nervous that I'd be caught out by the wife, started to think on what else I could spend the money on, and then, it happened... I chickened out, went all wimpy and decided to instead fetch the kids from play school early.

I am not a regular punter (never more than 6 times a year even though I have been on ESA since forever under different profiles) due to a number of reasons, mainly being that work keeps me busy 7-6, so when I do get the gap, I often grab it but then the cold feet starts to grow and boom... opportunity lost. I think my last massage was with lovely Gabbi in late January.

I'm really feeling quite peeved with myself at the lost opportunity.

Could I ask a few questions?
Why do you degrade yourself like that thinking your not good enough?
No one is perfect.
Ps: what's your beard got to do with the booking?
Sir keep in mind we all do this to make a living....
what you should remember is why you do this in the first place and that you contributing to this ladies life.
Don't ever look down on yourself and think you not good enough.
We don't look at the exterior of the human(okey I don't) I'm looking at someone that wants me...my time my body.
So I'm the one being in the position to say thank you for your support.
Just have the guts to phone them and cancel because you cost that lady money for that hour.

Well said Meg!!! Grant74...Don't worry boet No one is perfect..I have a big boeb short dick plenty hair above the dick no hair on my chest no hair on my back and you just do it .. Don't start to shave the ball hair and start to become a princess with face cream and pills or any body creams ..you know what i mean ..You don't want the wife to start wondering . Just be very clean before a booking make sure clean socks clean underwear..nails short hands and feet .use some breath chappies , and be your self .O make sure you always have cash ,no credit cards and always have a great excuse why you late or where where you?? Good luck!

@Grant74 I think getting cold feet is pretty normal, although if I had made all the way to the venue I would have gone through with it. I don't like to cancel an appointment but certainly cold feet can stop me making that call even when the opportunity finally arises. So yes it's easy to want to visit when you can't, and then to get feelings of guilt/fear when you can. I'm sure others don't have this issue at all, but nevertheless you are not alone. @Meg I worry the age difference the most and that it may lead to an uncomfortable/mechanical hour, although you would be a good match for me :)

@Grant74, boss, I am fugly, thinning hair, boep, 2inch dick (when erect) and am incredibly self conscious. But in a 10/11 year punting spree were only twice rejected. I feel like a million dollars making sexy times with the most beautiful ladies in the biz, many of them perfect 10's. There is no way any of them would under normal circumstances would even look at me never mind talk to me. But I do have some personality and many WGs I make them laugh. So Im thankful for this biz enabling me to enjoy the company of these fine ladies.

You did mention you are a daddy. That boss may be the reason you change your mind on a punt. In this fucked up country at the moment you better save every cent for your kids future. The zupta clands will still rape this country for years to come.

Sent you a pm sweety xxx

@doug1234,

That is the last thing to worry about. I have no problem with age, it is however just a number ;)

I do think age is a factor for me. I wouldn't wanna see clients under 28 or above 80 for that matter.
It's still a choice.

On 2017-04-11 12:42:17 doug1234 said:


@Meg I worry the age difference the most and that it may lead to an uncomfortable/mechanical hour, although you would be a good match for me :)

There's a age category for every client on this forum.
Happy I'm your size sir lol.

Grant74,
My piece of advice would be to attend a social next time they have one. I am not a regular punter myself, and was quite worried about how I would be at the social, but trust me, it's a great oppurtunity to meet some of the ladies, and if you go alone, one may very well hook onto you and who knows what may happen.

We all have our doubts & insecurities about ourselves as do the ladies aswell. Best to have a shit,shave & shampoo before you go and 'wing it'

Hahahaha thanks all, don't feel so alone now.

Just to clarify, I didn't actually book anybody, I wimped out before making the call ;-)