If I may,

I fully understand and suppport the fact that ladies have restrictions. That being said, may i request that you list those restrictions under the "Dislikes" section of your profile. If you you dont do greek, it is listed, if you dont kiss or do oral with out a condom, that is cool but please list it accordingly ;-)
I see there has been a similar request for racial preference..seems a reasonable request.

This will go along way to avoiding our frustration, and what appears to be a general popular dislike for 'time wasters.

Yesterday i drove far, was informed of the no kissing rule on arrival, should have walked out but didnt, gave it a try, half way though the session i stoppped as it just feels forced and mechanical....alas another huge waste of time and money.

Please asseblief man xoxo

Sekondeer!!!

Support you with this one Bingoboy ... had a similar experience a while back ... a real turn off !!!

For some obsurd reason i feel to guilty to walk out on a lady or hold back her fee, but they have no problem demanding the whole fee...FML LOL

It's a great idea... but will ESA allow us ladies to expand the list of our restrictions under dislikes?

Yes plse!

On 2017-10-28 08:36:03 Ms Paige said:
It's a great idea... but will ESA allow us ladies to expand the list of our restrictions under dislikes?

I also don't think ESA will allow us to do this.

It is also frustrating for me as a working girl, I think it is my choice to put on my profile what I like or not, and what my preferences are.

But ESA's rules are ESA's rules.

There is a fairly simple solution. Contact the lady and request that she send you her limits, dislikes and restrictions. She can then send a text message saying exactly what she wanted to say on esa to the client.
It will cost a few cents but will prevent a lot of frustration by both the ladies and the client.

As they say, all facts have different points of view, and so i see the otherside now...thanks for the enlightenment.

Can't you ladies then mention your specific restrictions, not facilitated under dislikes, in your introduction?

FMS - truth be told i am awkward making those calls..i would rather look at a profile and know up front to not even call...minimal effort for all.

But with the lack of upfront knowledge, what you say makes sense. Yesterday the lady could have sent me a warning sms. She has loads of positive reviews so i thought a smooch would be a given.....i was wrong, should have asked...my bad.

I guess some of these things are also done at the discretion of the lady once she sees the individual...