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Posted: 2017-10-29 22:56:27

I really don't know what some guys think they will accomplish by doing this

On my whatsapp there is this guy who contacted me about my services and rates from an Asian number I gave him all the info his been asking questions on and off for about about today he asks more questions and says he will be back in SA in January
So I ask him to contact me when his in SA next thing he tell me ( I'd rather get someone else then. Plenty of prostitutes in Cape Town. And I'll be sure to write a review about your bad service )
So I have not deleted any of the chats and told him my job is to provide services to clients not be a chat host and I sent him the chats via screenshots and told him i have answered all questions and was not rude and he is clearly crossing his boundaries ( his reply No problem. Will sure to add in the review that the chats aren't private .The customer is always right. Don't know why you sending me screenmunches I've got that chat

So some guys feel that because of the review system we should be at there beck and call
Chasidy
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Posted: 2017-10-30 07:11:36

Mika thats why i ask most of my clients not to review me unless my service has changed and they are unhappy..

I also had a guy on WhatsApp wanting naked photos and videos if i don't send he will give me a rating of 1 and tell all im not as good as many believe.... i laughed it off didnt respond blocked him and also added him to my spam... so this morning i went through spam 118 miss calls, 12 spam msges guess what i dont care, let him review as i feel nothing...

I have this saying im in competition with no one it took me 3 years to build my brand and chasidy has a strong foundation.. i need not prove myself as i know im good at everything i do... even if its just a pedicure with a foot massage lol..

So beautiful lady dont let it get to u his bark is bigger than his bite..

Punters and many wg know u and know you are great at what u do...

Love
Chas
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Posted: 2017-10-30 07:27:36

Hear hear, Chasidy. Fully agree with you. Some people are just plain assholes.
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Posted: 2017-10-30 07:41:18

I agree... people can think just what they want... There will always be someone who wants you to fail... the best thing I could do for myself is to work on my "I don't give a shit attitude". But when it comes to the actual servise I provide to my clients I know I'm good in what I'm doing... yes I don't click with every one but will still give the best I can... also a reason I decided not to be reviewed anymore. To many scambugs asked me for freebies and breaking rules in return for nice reviews. I don't need them in my life. My reputation as a WG is way more important than a +5.
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Posted: 2017-10-30 07:45:29
Edited: 2017-10-30 07:47:08

Honestly, I can see how this could be very threatening to a new wg who's finding her feet..
But if you are established with some good reviews behind you, then you really shouldn't care.
Not all the punters are b******s and we often tend to rally behind a wg if we feel dodginess is afoot. Finding a wg who is "serious" about service is hard enough and we tend to try protect those who do. Even if it's just on the forums.

This is why I miss Mr Bond. An incident such as the one you described came up and so he just booked the wg and wrote a review. That ended the whole debacle on the spot.
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Posted: 2017-10-30 11:18:36

Thank you so much ladies for the reply yes we cant please everybody


On 2017-10-30 07:45:29 Timtam101 said:
Honestly, I can see how this could be very threatening to a new wg who's finding her feet..
But if you are established with some good reviews behind you, then you really shouldn't care.
Not all the punters are b******s and we often tend to rally behind a wg if we feel dodginess is afoot. Finding a wg who is "serious" about service is hard enough and we tend to try protect those who do. Even if it's just on the forums.

This is why I miss Mr Bond. An incident such as the one you described came up and so he just booked the wg and wrote a review. That ended the whole debacle on the spot.


I hear what you saying but in my view be you a new wg or not some of us try and give our best service to clients and don't want our name dragged down or be threatened because we refuse let out boundaries be crossed by a guy
Review system is meant to be there to weet out the bad not used as a weapon
For a guy easy to leave a review and move on yourl are anonymous for us new or old this is our income
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Posted: 2017-10-30 11:43:33

Bob-Jan Said: Hear hear, Chasidy. Fully agree with you. Some people are just plain assholes.

Tripple like my sweetheart...
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Posted: 2017-10-30 11:50:09
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On 2017-10-30 11:18:36 Mika Bbw said:

I hear what you saying but in my view be you a new wg or not some of us try and give our best service to clients and don't want our name dragged down or be threatened because we refuse let out boundaries be crossed by a guy
Review system is meant to be there to weet out the bad not used as a weapon
For a guy easy to leave a review and move on yourl are anonymous for us new or old this is our income



I do understand what you saying. There is no way around the fact that the review system is a double edged sword. The only reason I use esa is the review system, I won't see a wg unless she has a review. The risks are just too high for me.

The converse of this is the pressure on you guys. One client is Chad Thundercock who is hung like a monster and is rough as hell, perhaps you are sore but the next punter is 10 mins away having booked a week ago and travelled for an hour to get to you. You are tired, hurting and off your game and the second guy writes the review saying just that.

Days will sometimes just be like that, how you handle such a review however is what makes all the difference. You did what you could but it wasn't enough because you were just that sore or exhausted. You can turn that bad review into a positive by the method in which it is dealt with.

It's easy for everyone to forget the other side is not the enemy. If we have a bad experience, the review section is the only recourse we have. A wg can however deal with a bad review if she takes her service seriously. She can try contact the guy (the forum PM system for example) and make things right. We don't have such systems, if you complain about a wg about her service to her and she doesn't care. Then that's just it. Klaar.

I've wrote a bad review a while ago because what was promised wasn't delivered and the general standard was just poor. Her response was she wanted me to see her again (at my cost lol) and give her a few days notice. All sounds reasonable right?
Till you think of the guys with baseball bats who may be waiting for me. She got more bad reviews after that and disappeared shortly after, that's just how the cookie crumbles at times.
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Posted: 2017-10-30 12:31:40

Samething happened to me a month back....Threatened to give me a bad review and report me to ESa..To my surprise,he reviewed me 2weeks back saying he left because i have a bad attitude but that wasn't the case..

So chin up girlfriend..
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Posted: 2017-10-30 12:50:28

On 2017-10-30 07:41:18 Ms Paige said:
My reputation as a WG is way more important than a +5.



This along with your I don't give a shit attitude is what make the industry and it crappy moments bearable. What I do when I'm bored is entertain these guys when I get to a point where most working girls get angry or upset I laugh and I tell them shot in such a nice way that they feel so small when I'm done with them that they never call back and her better pray that I'm alone because if I'm not ill have him on speaker phone while we all laugh at what is being said. The only reason I do this is for my own Entertainment :)

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