Dear Punters and Fellow Advertisers

I feel that there are several different types of punters, may we please discuss this, so that I may better understand the other side...

I have had only a handful of clients come through for the entire session to be about a relief. We all know the relief being sexual in nature and that is it.

But more often than not, there is depth and character, intellect and understanding that bubbles beneath the surface. Those yearning to be seen, heard and truly touched.

Ultimately, I personally don't believe that desire rules us, I believe that each one of us is seeking to be desired and that is articulated through various expressions or experiences.

So what type of punter are you?

Let's make a list, I'll start with my top 5:

1. Wham Bam Thank you Ma'am or in My case Mr

2. Uses humour and wit to conceal depth or further convey depth

3. Genuinely curious and enjoys variety

4. Actually seeking romance and partnership, falls in love easily

5. Seeking warmth, connection, and understanding. Willing to understand you as well.

I'd love to hear from you.

@XR, great idea for a thread.
I believe that type-5 best describes my motivation for being here.

I believe that the need for human connection represents the single greatest driver of all behaviors - both healthy and unhealthy.

It is both the cause and (hopefully) effect of every human endeavor. We may not always be aware this - sometimes we are only conscious of the superficial motivation, such as pleasure, hunger, business or social success etc, or the slightly deeper drivers of fear or greed. But at the root of it all, is our fundamental desire, and dare I say requirement of human connection.

A very interesting view on this is presented by Johann Hari in his TED Talk entitled "The opposite of addiction is connection", see link below. His basic hypothesis and concepts in the talk relate primarily to addiction but, I believe, apply equally well to every aspect of our lives.

www.ted.com/talks/johann_hari_everything_you_think_you_know_about_addiction_is_wrong

So, I would encourage y'all to consider this theory the next time you are having a "2AM meeting with yourself because you cannot sleep. "
Or not!

Great thread!
I would put myself squarely on 3 and 5

I enjoy variety very much, but also love making true connections.

There is ultimately another kind.....

The worst kind of all!

Punter kind number 6 :

The kind that comes to take his personal stress frustrations and mental shit out in you,
The kind that disregards your boundaries completely,
The kind that thinks your rules are meant to be broken , that your selfrecpect is some kind if challenge!
The kind that deliberately goes out of his way to make the session as horrifying as posible,
The kind that Thinks the money he paid excuses any and all wrong doing (with intent),
The kind that Take advantage of you when your in vulnerable
positions,
Pushes (sorry harasses you) for services you don't offer,
then there is the kind that will take what they want without consent and without paying for it!
The kind that makes a joke of you the industry you place your service and effort.
The kind that Looks down on you for what you do for a living, but he's a client -contributing and taking part in the industry, what's that about?
Makes false online disputes and unkind remakes with the intention to sabotage you bussiness,
The kind that abuses your body treat it like n cum dumster
(like your not a human that can feel),
Manhandles you in the room and leave you with blue and black marks!
The kind that doesn't wash his dick or ass and presents himself just like that! And the service provider must just keep smiling???
The kind that comes to you drunk and wasted and still have the balls to offer you drugs (to bring onto your premises)
The kind that have zero regard for you time ,comes late or doesn't even bother to cancel an appointment!
The kind that thinks your supposed to lick their ass to make a booking with some sort of convincing from your side to him, like you All ready owe him something!
O yes and lastly the kind that insults your body, but that same body is the one he choose to book of a sexsite.

It seems like some punters punt to
1) try to rape
2) try to mentally abuse
3) degrade another person and
4) missuse the power a few hunder rands apparently give them.
5) punts to be the sick twisted replasive fuckup's they truely are ,but can't show to any one.

Yes this industry is outled to many mentally ill people!!!

Kylie

Hmm.. not easy.
For me it's a starving/need for 1 that got me to look for sps in the first place. Only to find it empty.
So thought my deeper need was 4.
Chaos!
Only to discover my need is for 5, solid 5! ... but if you don't work at 3 as well, you'll end up at 4 again.

..if that makes sense ;))

Probably No.5

N4P

I'm a 3 & 5

Curious to learn about myself and my sexuality but also love to meet people who don't have hidden agendas.

1 is always my driving factor for punting and I'd say that's 65% of the type of punter I am as I've enjoyed sessions that may be not the warmest but 5 unlocks a different level of enjoyment for me, that said I am more likely to return if 5 is involved.

Yor its rough out here for some! I truly am blessed. Can i vote for a punter. The most amazing, caring, kind considered, naughty, sexy handsome and warm, loooves to spoil.

Was number 3 and 5, but now none anymore