My dear Sally

I just wanted to write to you about a very very bad experience I had the past week end with one of your girl listed in your site, her name is Cassie.

That wasn't the first time I met her, the first time was about a year ago and that wasn't spectacular as well, but this time was just worst.

When I called her we agreed to meet for 3 days and she would meet me at 12:00 PM in the hotel and of course she didn't showed up, I tried to call her at her cell phone but it was disconnected, finally she called me and she said that the day before she was carjacked and the robbers took everything and that she could be at the hotel room at 5:00 PM, at that time I tried to see if she would be mentally OK to go on with the appointment and she said she was OK and that she wouldn't leave sooner like it happened the previous time, so I said OK come over and we will be together for 3 days as per our arrangement.

Of course she didn't arrive until 5:45PM giving me so many excuses as why she was late. And that was only the first day, just wasted.

The second day started at about 8:00 am with Cassie receiving 2 phone calls and then she told me she had to leave because one of her friend went to the hospital the night before to have his heart checked and he stayed in the hospital all night for observation but she said that it went worst and she had to leave for a little bit to be with him and she assured me she would be back soon. As she was leaving she took all her belongings and I asked her why she took everything if she was coming back soon, she gave me some really of the wall excuse and she left.

Cassie finally called me back telling me that she was coming back that afternoon and I shouldn't worry, the afternoon came and went and no signs of Cassie, so I didn't spend any time with her for the whole day.

I went out to eat and as I returned to my room I found a message from Cassie saying that she would be back in the next morning.

In the morning there was another message from Cassie saying she would be at the hotel at 10:00 AM and she didn't arrive till aprox 11:00 AM, Cassie was very apologetic about the situation saying that it wasn't her fault and that things happen in life, I did agree things happen but I wasn't my fount as well and as a customer with a verbal agreement of 3 days meeting with her and it wasn't fullfilled and I requested to have some money back because we didn't spent the second day together at all and the 3rd and final day I asked her to leave because she was not at all there.

I wanted to say to you that I came all the way from Florida USA to meet her and she lied to me about times and who knows about what else but most of all she lied about giving some of my money back, we agreed for 6000 Rand for 3 days and I asked to have 2000 Rand back for the one day she wasn't there at all and I was paying for the 3rd day because I asked her to go, I just didn't want to be with her after what happened.

She did agree to give me 2000 Rand back and she said she was coming back that night to bring it to me and I asked to leave it in an envelope at the concierge desk where I would pick it up, nothing was left for me so I called several times and never an answer, left messages and never a reply.

It is to bad I wasted a vacation to meet Cassie and it was so horrible and disappointed that there are girls in your site like that. I can understand things happened but I shouldn't be paying for the services I didn't get, I only wanted the money back for the one day and she lied she was going to give it back to me.

I would like to put my comment in her page so other people know about my experience with her but when I enter all the information and I have to go back and confirm it wont take it so I cannot enter them.

Could you help me ??????

Regards Carmelo

Dear Carmelo

My condolences -- there are a couple of ladies out there that do indeed take us for a ride, and I agree with you, they should be criticised for doing so.

Once, in response to a related criticism of another lady on the site, it was suggested that as this was an unregulated industry, there was nothing one could do in response to such behaviour. I disagree. Just as the people advertising their services on this site expect, rightly, to be treated with respect from their clients; and just as Sally seeks correctly to encourage men to treat the ladies in an honourably way and not simply as sex objects; so too, sexworkers should treat their clients with respect. A lack of regulation is no excuse for dishonesty.

Stephen

Dear Stephen,

In many ways I agree with you but again this is an unregulated industry and will never change. Carmelo emailed me, leaving this matter in my hands to deal with as I saw fit. My initial response was shock, I know Cassie on a personal level and would never believe this behavior of her. This embarassed me, how could one of "my" girls treat someone like this?

I'm shocked and angry (what I really want to say is pissed off) Carmelo basically flew half way across the world to see this woman, he paid for her time and technically when the booking started it became his time Cassie was wrong and I feel I have to make clients aware of what is potentially out there waiting for them.

Stephen, I am aware of the previous situation you are referring to and it was very different to this one, the escort in question was attacked for her performance in the bedroom, her attitude (and yes she had a very bad attitude) and lastly her fee's. Cassie is different, she knowingly took advantage of Carmelo and that I believe is unforgivable and as much as I'd like to I cannot protect her and will not make excuses for her.

Take care

Sally

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I'm assuming Sally was like an aunt agony back then dishing out advice...

There are 3 Cassie's with active adverts - wonder which one he saw?

Surely not your Cassie, Martinm:)

On 2021-06-06 22:57:49 martinm said:
There are 3 Cassie's with active adverts - wonder which one he saw?

The original post is from 2006

OMG. Whats the point?...do tell pray for putting up a post 15 years old???? I am lost for words on this actually. What has carmelo been doing all these years??? obviously playing sleeping beauty? Or just felt like a rant and still not gotten over this after so many years. Face in hands. S

On 2021-06-07 05:11:34 Sylvia said:
OMG. Whats the point?...do tell pray for putting up a post 15 years old???? I am lost for words on this actually. What has carmelo been doing all these years??? obviously playing sleeping beauty? Or just felt like a rant and still not gotten over this after so many years. Face in hands. S

That fellow probably doesn't even exist here. Davistarr dugnup these threads if you look at the post timelines.

Did you know her @Davi?

JP69