Do ladies and punters ever just get that vibe that something isn't right about a visit or person?

Can be just a feeling, no connection, asking too many personal questions or just the way the person touches/kisses you, their body language etc you feel somewhat uncomfortable or threatened in a way?

If I cancel a booking and can't go through with a booking, due to any problems from MY side... I do give the money back, unless they were in the wrong...

There is a fine line between passion and forcing something.

I have felt "awkward" in the past. But that was mainly because I don't talk and the lady don't talk and were just like: "Yep...sigghh....lekker weather neh"

On 2019-08-28 13:28:42 Minime V10.1 said:
I have felt "awkward" in the past. But that was mainly because I don't talk and the lady don't talk and were just like: "Yep...sigghh....lekker weather neh"

Lmao! I love to talk! but in cases where you feel you're being interrogated or being fished for information from, rather than having a normal friendly conversation, no, I don't like that at all.

Some people just Have really bad vibes about them or make you feel uncomfortable quickly by things they do.

Oh, I am a sensitive person.... sensitive to the vibe and energy I pick up from someone. When I turn down punters its usually because of this. You learn to tune in so finely that you will eventually eliminate those that make you feel something is off and you won't even accept the booking in the first place. This develops over time.
I often can even tell from the ring of the telephone that the caller is not the client for me, not that there is something wrong with him, its just that I am not a right fit for him, nor he for me. I have to add that I am not right all the time but most of the time. Its been a long time since I was uncomfortable on a booking. And I put that down to gut instinct. The guys who do pitch are on the same wavelength as me.
You can always steer the conversation in the way you want it to go. Or politely tell him what you'd rather talk about. I do believe you should stick to the boundaries you are comfortable with. Punters have no business in your private life unless you feel comfortable letting them in and even then its not a good idea.

I probably ask the kakkest questions ever. But that's just how I am. Too quiet or asking dumb shit

On 2019-08-28 13:28:42 Minime V10.1 said:
I have felt "awkward" in the past. But that was mainly because I don't talk and the lady don't talk and were just like: "Yep...sigghh....lekker weather neh"

I've also had that sort of experience....1 because I've been made to feel dodge due to her phone skills... 2 the drunk ladies..... You just want to be over it.

Some ladies are truly professional though they let me talk cos I'm nervous cos she's so hot and we do the deed as if we were lovers with experience....considering It is rare that I have been with the same lady repeat (80% of the time cos you feel like you're in a candy store on this site and really you just must sample everyone...thank you esa and ladies for being awesome)


But sometimes everyone has an off day.... This one wg I did repeat visit was totally different to my first visit.... Did not enjoy that- I did not repeat visit her again...

Also according to what I've read on the forum and elsewhere and the ladies I've spoken with... Some men are just f**ed up in their heads either drugs power trips or they're just assh0le5.....


Ashleigh one day I would have the pleasure.....hopefully you get those warm fuzzy vibes and I can make you tingle all over

On 2019-08-28 13:24:36 Ashleigh said:
There is a fine line between passion and forcing something.

Absolutely ;)

I just pay the fee and go, but will not engage in a punt where there is not proper sexual chemistry involved.

You can't blame the lady if there is no "connection". We all individuals, and no garantee that we will have sexual attratiin with everyone we book.

Ashleigh. You are most likely right. There is a book titled The Gift of Fear, check it up. The author advises that if your "red lights" start to flicker, listen to them. He is a professional bodyguard to high level clients and professionally quite intimate with human behaviour, especially its darker side.