Posted: 2019-06-10 16:47:29
After years of generally loose behavior and a similar number of years punting, I've encountered most forms of build in the female form.
I've gone through stages of seeking out the good the bad and the ugly.
Tiny little waifs to robust 120kg bundles of love and joy. AA cups to hefty double Hs. Tall willowy creatures of delight to spiteful little dwarfs.
Then there's the drugged, drunk, overworked, bitter, twisted, nasty or delightful, sexy, slinky, sophisticate, demure and generous.
Race is nothing but a synonym for variety as far as I am concerned so throw that in to the mix as well along with the shave n' shaped through dreadlocked armpits and knee length bushes.
You know what I've come to view with incredible distaste?
Self-obsession and an inability to develop and state a reasoned opinion politely.
I'm not talking about a PhD level education here. No matter what the educational level is the above is off putting.
Firstly, you are supposed to get me obsessing over you lady! If you are obsessed with yourself there is nothing left for me.
I love the fact that you gym, am jealous of those that shower you in gifts, admire what you have gone through, are going through or are hoping to go through, but for heaven's sake can we now talk about something other than you! It doesn't even have to be about me.
And the opinion thing?
"I Like the colour yellow because it suits my complexion." It can be that simple. Its an opinion and yours to have despite the fact that I reckon you'd look better in beige. You have told me your opinion and the reason you came to it.
"Beige is kak!" is not an opinion. It is a statement that shows a lack of thought or willingness to entertain another person's opinion.
So, these days I tend not to care about the size, shape, textural quality or hair style of those that I choose as intimate partners. It's the personality that make or breaks a sexual interlude.
I really don't like women with hairy backs, but then I've never been fond of then so, no change there and not terribly relevant to this discussion.