Hi,I have never really cared or asked a punter to review or rate me, (many has apologized out of their own to me that they don't do reviews). I am okay with not having any reviews (mainly Due to discretion with punters, which I totally understand and have no problem with it), those who have been with me, will know my worth etc, not everyone has the same taste, which is awesome.

What does bothers me, is the stories that I have been told by other SM WG's, that some punters won't book me, because I have no ratings or reviews.
I work hard and love what I do.
My curious question to everyone:
Is this fair on someone like me? Some punters not wanting to book me because I have not been rated or reviewed?

Thank you for reading.

Hi

You need to see this one from a punter's perspective. It's not that they don't want to book you, it just becomes more difficult to know what to expect from you.

Punters just want to have fun and reviews are a way of seeing whether you are likely to provide fun for them or not. Punters do not enjoy going through the trouble and then being met with substandard or even dangerous experiences.

Reviews just help to reduce risks for a punter.

As dickshaft said, we don't like the risk of a bad experiences. I don't know what you charge but in general the higher the price, the higher your risk of losing more so we're more likely to hold out for a credible review or 2 before taking that risk. It's still a risk as you may have different chemistry so the more credible reviews, the less risky and the more willing we are to try.

Something that puzzles me is what privacy they're concerned about? Most are here with fake aliases, burner emails and sims so we don't know who everyone really is so we're free to share and review. If that is genuinely the case ask them to create a second account and review you. Sure a post count of 1 will seem dodge but if we're interested, we'll read it anyway and if it's genuine, we'll pick it up and if it's genuine and good, probably make a booking.

Of that doesn't work, maybe an ESA special, the lower the risk, the better the chances people will take a chance. The more ESA guys you see, the more you have to possibly review you. It doesn't need to be Gold members, since it means nothing but if you snag a few credible ones, you're in luck.

Other than that, maybe a bit of self introspection. We'll rush of to review a horrible punt or a great punt but an average punt can wait for a review if I have time and remember.

Again, I don't know you or your service or your rates so this is generic stuff you can consider. Just trying to help.

Ok, so according to this, a bad or good review is all that catches the attention of punters. I beg to differ.

Some punters will not leave a review even if they see a girl regularly. They got their reasons. I don't ask for reviews and don't offer discounts for reviews. And I don't ask for reasons why?

Some will want to leave a review, but to me it says less than the thank you, I had an awesome time I get after. If they tell me what I did wrong, I don't take it as an insult, but a way to better myself.

As for holding ESA specials to catch a lucky review? Not interested. I hold specials because it makes business sense. Market = sales decline = specials. And to anyone that says otherwise, proof it. You don't treat your clientele in any less manner because you holding a special as you would on normal days. Customer Service = happy clients.

A bad or good review doesn't catch the attention of a punter, your profile does (your pictures, your offerings and services and whatever we can pick up from your profile). A bad or good review only helps us to decide whether we are willing to take the plunge with you or not after our attention has already been caught.

The majority of punters don't review girls generally. It is a minority that does, but a large subset of ESA punters still use reviews to decide whether you may be worth seeing.

Reviews aren't, and shouldn't, be a way for punters to show gratitude to you. You shouldn't be offering discounts for reviews. Yes you could learn from the feedback in a review, but personal feedback to you alone doesn't give other punters much info on your service offering.

As for specials, no one said that they're to help you catch a review. Specials are just another way to reduce risk for punters as they would lose out less if the punt went south.

Reviews are generally about helping punters manage their risks.

I personally 1st check reviews and then decide if I wana visit or not.
Regarding privacy... I used to review many years back on another site and one day reviewed a shemale,the next thing when I tried to make a booking with a female that I used to visit often she told me not to call her ever again as I visit shemales... so maybe that's one risk.

I also don't ask for reviewes same as I never ask the gent visiting me what his punter name is. Privacy is of utmost importance to me. If I do get a review I appreciate it more cause I know it was done out of the punter's own. I know my worth and Ive had someone making a booking previously with an understanding that because I dont have that many reviews he would end up paying half price if in any way he feels ripped off or not happy. He ended up paying full price and giving a tipp....

I'm not a regular punter, but will rarely book a lady if there aren't any reviews. The sole reason for this is that I don't have the money to burn on "experience".
I think most guys think the same way. Taking a chance with their hard earned cash is the biggest risk in my opinion.
Most of the ladies on this site have taken years to build their reputation and earn their reviews.
I don't see the harm in asking any of your clients to do a review if they feel comfortable, the biggest marketing tool available is word of mouth...
Wishing you all the best with your venture

Times are tough in terms of finance and safety.

Having reviews makes the decision to book easier. If there is no good chemistry in the session, at least one can be assured that they will walk out with their possessions and not having to worry about being robbed, bumping into other punters, etc.

As mentioned, the best form of marketing is word of mouth and one is more likely to part with their hard earned, blood and sweat money on someone that has a good reputation.

Have to agree it is unfair to say "No reviews no visit" , and then not review when you visit.

All the top ladies also started without reviews. Just hang in there, it will happen.