Hi all,

It happens often.
Could we have a discussion around this topic?

-Punters need to adhere to certain rules, when they start punting.

-Dilemma is being caused when they don't.

- How do we deal with wives calling us? Out them or try cover up their stupidity?

Could we have a rational discussion around this? I'm aware that this conversation may have been brought up in the past, but there are always new punters, so let's be fair.

Could we please use this thread to inform and not bash.
I certainly would appreciate feedback.

Hugs,
Clau

Im not married..but can imagine that this might be a big headache.

Punters have to be more careful....have a story sorted for when they do get caught out.

Never had one....but a "punting phone" that you guard with your life?

I get contacted by angry wives who often end up asking me for advice or being friendly. I feel if they don't care enough to be cautious with those they claim to love, why should it be my job to cover their asses? Your choice to punt, your problem.

Happened to me a very long time ago

Got whatsapp messages from the wife pretending to be a guy, her profile pic gave it away. Too girly anyway after a couple of questions I realised this is not a guy

So I asked "him" to call me, never happened. Later she confessed to me on whatsapp that she is trying to catch her husband out

Lol long story short we ended up chatting like old friends

Dont know if it makes sense to cover for a punter. After the huge scare of his wife (almost) finding out.....he will probably not visit you again anyway....in fear of getting caught for real next time. He'll probably go into "semi retirement"

At least in my case the punter never was with me, when she sent me his photo I knew I didn't recognise him

Obviously hard for her to believe, but she did

She contacted me because my nr was on his phone and that was it

On 2018-04-13 15:09:09 Patric Star(fish) said:
Dont know if it makes sense to cover for a punter. After the huge scare of his wife (almost) finding out.....he will probably not visit you again anyway....in fear of getting caught for real next time. He'll probably go into "semi retirement"

Exactly...I have a client that married a girl from the industry and she has now become the disgruntled wife contacting girls, lol. Calls us dirty whores...to funny, especially since he was married when he used to book her.

Usually caused by drink that causes forgetery and then wives sober forever remembering mind kicks into Action and disaster follows.

It's happenes to me twice as well that's why I will never text if I have not spoken to the client. On whatsapp it is easy to catch as well. Simple question I ask is "You got my number from?". A friend is not an acceptable answer or one of the other sites as I only advertise on Esa.

It's happened to me twice as well that's why I will never text if I have not spoken to the client. On whatsapp it is easy to catch as well. Simple question I ask is "You got my number from?". A friend is not an acceptable answer or one of the other sites as I only advertise on Esa.