The Client

Such an innocuous word. Meaning so much.

Client : a person that receives a service from a professional person and pays for that service.

We are called clients or punters in this purple grey world. This world that most people are aware of, but not all partaking. The mystery and the fear of the unknown keeping most from it.

For those of us that decided to enter this netherworld new rules of engagement need to be learned, and learned quickly.

For this world exists around fantasies, and the fulfilling of fantasies of the clients, by professsional service providers who specialises in satisfying the clients' needs.

This world exist because there is a need for it. The client is unfulfilled with this current circumstances, and is reaching out to someone to help. In this reaching out, he becomes vulnerable. He opens up his wallet, his heart, unless he is heartless, and to some extend his life.

The client has this mystical idea that by indulging in the services of a professional sevice provider, he will feel better at the end of the day. He justifies his moving into this netherworld as a necessary evil to be able to function in the real world. My wife/partner does not inderstand me. She does not like sex. The excuses are myriad. The reasoning behind it so flawed in the first place that the rest becomes fruit of the poison tree.

The client is looking for something that is amiss in his real world, and thinking that he can get it here. It takes a lot of effort to indulge in this world. First of all, a shitload full of money. Ever added up your punting bill over 12 months ? Scary. Money thrown down a drain with nothing to show except empty balls.

And a life full of lies. For in that lies the crux. As a client, you need to be less than truthful. You need to cover those times that you abscond from work, lie to your staff, your boss, your wife/partner and kids. At first the client finds it difficult to lie. Then he sees that everyone is buying his bullshit stories. So the lying becomes easier. It becomes a habit. 40 days to cultivate this habit. The lies will extend further, not only to punting, but become a way of life. A never ending web of lies.

And oh, how quick we weave that web of deceit when at first we do deceive. The client is a quick learner, for if he is caught out, the consequences will be devastating. Loss of income,loss of life as you know it. Financial devastation.

Time that you could spend productively effectively wasted on carnal pleasures of the hedonistic kind. A monumental loss of time really. Again, look at the time wasted. Making a booking 1 hour. Getting to the venue 30 min. Spending an hour. Getting back 30 min. Minimum of 3 hours wasted.

Is this really worth the effort, for that momentary release when you explode in 5 languages, usually forgetting the girl's name that you are rogering, embarrassing yourself when you call out the wrong girl's name.

We , the client.

Fucknuts of note.

We are a breed apart.



No wonder that we are not perceived as marriage material or even boyfriend material. Ostracised even from the lives of the service providers. Weighed and found wanting.

We can only blame ourselves.

The Client

It's a sad world we live in.
We make choices and we stick to it.
Wrong or right....

Me and a friend where talking about the same subject 2 days ago...
It's like everyone is looking for something to complete their lives and by entering this world you not really doing yourself a favor.

We all (purple worlders) live in a make believe world... one where everyone wants us... but no one needs us.
(Do we even know the difference)?

We all have needs... the day we realize we can't always get what we want is the first step to self healing.

I'm just another lady on this site... of 1000 to come.
On someone's phone I'm a plumber or mechanic or what ever...
I'm just a number...

Where's our place in society?
INL... you on the right track my friend... there is many things we can talk about over that bottle of wine one day.

Me just another Massage girl.

Meg

One bottle is never enough. Don't get me started. I have been known to discuss topics till sunrise.

And "one day" ????

My answer is always : NOW is a good time. Why waste time ? For we are not promised tomorrow.


I have been called out so many times for "asssuming" what it is like to be a service provider, that I am steering very clear from that little assumption. So I will talk about us, the Clients, but not about the service providers.


Regards

INL

Great piece of writing my friend BUT it is by our own choice how difficult and sad we want to make this fantasy world for ourselves !!!

I the beginning of my punting "career" I had it all wrong but luckily realised that this is only a fantasy world where we life in ... to get too attached to someone can be fatal and caused many unnessary problems for myself and the gorgeous ladies !!! Allow her to be the service provider and you the CLIENT !!!

I have made some very good friends in the past couple of years with punters and with some of the ladies but respect why the ladies are into this and what they are giving us ... that small little things that was lacking in the real world and by doing it ... made us complete !!!

The safest thing to do is to be what we actually are ... a CLIENT !!!

BE SPOILED BY THE LADIES FOR THAT PERIOD OF COMPANIONSHIP ... THAT PERIOD OF FANTASY THAT YOU PAID FOR BUT MOVE ALONG AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE AND DON'T FORGET NOT TO GETTING TOO ATTACHED !!!

Enjoy each other to the fullest .. make her cum as many times as possible ... by muffing, by squirting, by anything that she likes .. make her as horny as she can be and let her do the same to you !!!

Again ... Just allow her to be the service provider and you the CLIENT !!!

I have to agree with @INL, no matter how often we visit a lady, no matter how long we have been active as punters, we will never know nor understand the real life of a SP.

Let stick to being a client, let us try and be the best client we can be. As @Boobs are mentioning, lets make it about the session, and the mutual enjoy of all parties involve.

That is the choice we should make, as fucknuts, we should still show respect to these gorgeous ladies that supply us with so much enjoyment.

INL: So true.

Actually, i feel like i am moving into a phase where i feel like stop punting. Probably wont last - in the past it hardly lasted for more than 2 weeks.

But, i am actually getting more and more disgusted with myself. True what you say, deep down not even the service providers respect us... We are the real scum.

Yes, i have also developed "relationships" with girls. There have been girls that the sensual was not really that hot for me - but i would visit them, because i miss them. Just longing their company and chatting to them. How fucked-up and lonely am i - more so when i have a lovely wife, kids, family at home. That actually wants to spend time with Mxxx. If only they know what a pathetic lier he really is.

Tomorrow i will be horny as hell again. Forgetting what i have said above. Justifying why i can and SHOULD spend R10k a month on MYSELF and this habbit. Spending hours on ESA finding the new kick. Wasting the 3 hours on the one hour booking (as INL descibed). And actually probably really enjoying only 10% of bookings or feeling, wow that was fantastic! It is just the excitement. This meaningless sex is not even good. Maybe beforehand i feel proud of what i can buy (without the money 99% of the girls will not even look in my direction), but so often regret what i have done.

Shit, what a terrible cycle! Nothing to be proud of!

Love this thread INL.
I don't mean to derail your thread but;
I am also a service provider in a different industry, and sometimes the client is just an Asshole!!
Cheers guys...and ladies.

Eina...sorry you gentlemen feel like that.
Oh okey bring as many bottles as you like... how long are we going to get stuck in my living room?
Should we order a takeaway lol?

Meg ... why wasting time on takeaways and wine .. I rather would like to lay on the plinth while watching porn and you sliding all over me with that gorgeous body of yours .. feeling that beautiful nipples touching my skin .. while whispering all naughty things in my ears ... that is fantasy ... you the service provider ... me the client ;) !!!

I'm still fairly new to this punting thing. What's being said here is harsh but true. I'm a fairly decent looking single introvert with social anxiety and can't get a girl. Don't know how to flirt and wouldn't even know what to say.i rather stay away as it's safer for me. Sheer loneliness drove me to start calling up escorts. Having to pay someone to spend time with me is quite pathetic but there is no other option right now. Seems like companionship is as necessary as breathing. Im on and off here like a yoyo but always end up coming back.