Negativity is a very nasty and contagious disease... and unfortunately there are people who can not live without it... bringing others down makes them feel better about themselves... They always seem angry and consciously looking for conflict... They litter negativity everywhere and wonder why their own life is so trashy... They feed on your reaction so that they can create more drama... and more drama is more oxygen to their bitter lives...
In stead of spending time to correct their own mistakes they choose to spend their time looking for faults in others... pointing fingers and just being toxic, negative and energy draining...

I realised that the battle they are fighting isn't with me... but with themselves...

I'm not wired for negativity... It only distance me from reaching my goals and I will NOT entertain it... Since I decided to distance myself from these negative bullshit... beautiful and amazing things happened in my life...
I will not let anyone's ignorance, drama and negativity poisen me and stop me from being my best.

My wish is for the sun to shine over every single person... and im wearing my best outfit... MY SMILE... it looks damn good on me... and I choose to wear it every day...

Bravo Ms Paige, bravo and a hearty aplause to you...very well said!!!!

Thank you so much esajoer...

Pray ma'am, what happened ?

When people insult you don't take offense,don't take it personally but listen to their words.They are telling you how they see the world and the exact negative qualities that they posses.

"The law of Mirrors"states that one can only see what's in them,regardless if it is what is actually present in reality or not.

Miss P you don't need to defend or try to explain yourself to them.

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Miss P you don't need to defend or try to explain yourself to them.

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Thanks but I wasn't defending or explaining anything to anyone...

I let them know that I won't entertain their drama... and I won't let anyone steal my happiness...

On 2017-12-13 07:53:43 Caressa said:
When people insult you don't take offense,don't take it personally but listen to their words.They are telling you how they see the world and the exact negative qualities that they posses.

"The law of Mirrors"states that one can only see what's in them,regardless if it is what is actually present in reality or not.

Miss P you don't need to defend or try to explain yourself to them.

Good approach that Miss Caressa. I really liked your mirrors analogy which is applicable to all of us.
Whilst defending and explaining may not be a necessity a simple apology when one is incorrect is much better than a back to the wall tongue-lashing. Even to someone you may not enjoy.
In my mind negativity is merely an individual's subjective take on a particular comment - One man's junk is another man's treasure. But then again as my initials attest I may be of Simple Mind.

On 2017-12-13 06:48:33 Ms Paige said:
Negativity is a very nasty and contagious disease... and unfortunately there are people who can not live without it... bringing others down makes them feel better about themselves... They always seem angry and consciously looking for conflict... They litter negativity everywhere and wonder why their own life is so trashy... They feed on your reaction so that they can create more drama... and more drama is more oxygen to their bitter lives...
In stead of spending time to correct their own mistakes they choose to spend their time looking for faults in others... pointing fingers and just being toxic, negative and energy draining...

I realised that the battle they are fighting isn't with me... but with themselves...

I'm not wired for negativity... It only distance me from reaching my goals and I will NOT entertain it... Since I decided to distance myself from these negative bullshit... beautiful and amazing things happened in my life...
I will not let anyone's ignorance, drama and negativity poisen me and stop me from being my best.

My wish is for the sun to shine over every single person... and im wearing my best outfit... MY SMILE... it looks damn good on me... and I choose to wear it every day...

On 2017-12-13 07:53:43 Caressa said:
When people insult you don't take offense,don't take it personally but listen to their words.They are telling you how they see the world and the exact negative qualities that they posses.

"The law of Mirrors"states that one can only see what's in them,regardless if it is what is actually present in reality or not.

Miss P you don't need to defend or try to explain yourself to them.

These words are so beautiful and so true but miss directed as the issue at hand is freeloading to which I am sure a number of paying advertiser's do not appreciate it. Sorry but it's not fair then I too can deactivate my add and do doubles with a friend that has a active add. Sadly it seems the point was missed. While I do agree that Veronica Franco could have been a but more diplomatic but she is who she is either you love her or you hate her there is no in between with her. This is something the people in this community knows very well.

Well said Arhwen.. totally misdirected at the issue on hand...

The best thing to do with peopke like her is to ignore them, they arent worth your attention.