I was wondering with the increase of gentlemen booking and not pitching up or letting the ladies know they can't make it!

It's gone up to 2/3 bookings a day where men makes appointments and don't even have the decency to cancel?

The funny thing is working with other ladies... I get a call... the clients book... 2 minutes later the same client phones all the other ladies?! Wtf is up with that? Budget punting?
Spoiled for choice?
Just want to say we saving your numbers as double book...

Now gentleman as far as I know respect goes both ways.?? Right?

All I hear all day is gentleman complaining about bad service and girls not being up to standard....

Believe me if I say a lot of us sit and wait everyday and wait for client to arrive.... just to find out his not even going to answer his phone or cancel so we can take another call!

We put in the hour to entertain you... show you a good time and to make you forget about your everyday nonsens.

Yes we got our job cut out for us!

Now here's the thing....what do you do from your side to make this woman feel good and important, do you show a bit of appreciation and respect?
You cancelled or pitch up!

Where is it ever said that if you dubbel book ladies not to let her know you not coming?
Aren't we human enough to understand that you choose to see someone else?

Just try it.., phone and cancel in TIME!!!!
It's frustrating to sit and wait on someone (who hasn't got the ability to even cancel on our asses) that doesn't understand our needs or responsibilities!

Ps: I'm important enough not to be degraded by any man in this situation!

Just my 2c worth!

I agree Meg there is no respect anymore. Things like accountability,honesty, reliability,empathy are just big words in the dictionary. Give respect to get respect...xx

It's not nice as it inconveniences you hey. I'm also wondering if I'm falling into that bracket. I have in a number of occasions called ladies to enquire about a service after which I said I will call to confirm if/when I'm coming. Hoping that isn't seen as me making a no show booking.

If you confirm a time yes it's seen as a booking.
I ask my clients to let me know if they on there way... now if I don't hear from them I take another appointment in his place.
Example....
Do you have a opening...?
Yes I do... what time will you be able to make it?
Say about 10?
Okey good I'll see you at 10.... ( now giving the address) please tell me when you on your way....
Please let me know when you in my street so I can explain to you how to get to me....
Okey will do....
Now 10 comes... you still haven't let me know you on your way.... I had 3/7 other calls but didn't take them because you confirmed a time!
Sir if your intentions is to do shopping with 2/3 other girls rather tell them straight I can't make it today can we reschedule please?

Now you saying you confirm a time?
Does that Secure your time slot?

My answer is No.... you didn't confirm you said you will let her know.

Wen I said in each and every business is first come first serve so also some of our "honourable" punters are business men totally hundred percent the know that that does not min if he said he will be there in 30 minutes they all mean it that 30 minutes end up 30 days not even single explanation or cancellation let's stay Strong gels coz this is the game but other they don't know how painful it is if they did not show up

1. Clients who phone to discuss your services and prices and never get back to you.
2. Clients who haggle over prices, get you to agree on a discount, but then go to someone else.
3. Clients who use your services and then want to "re-negotiate" prices before paying you
4. Clients who clog up your inbox with "waste of time" emails.
5. Clients who make an appointment but don't show
6. Clients who ask you to come to them but when you get there, they are not there!!
7, Clients who ask you to come to them but when you get there you realise it was about something that could have been spoken about over the phone.

the Escort industry???
No, welcome to the life of every salesman / woman. this was my life for 30 years.
Punters not pitching is inconsiderate, but sorry ladies you are not unique.
Clients treat suppliers like the proverbial shit and we put up with it because maybe next week, month, six months they will put an order our way.
Any punter out there who is a supplier to the retail trade - i.e. Shoprite, Pick'n'Pay etc..?? they will tell you how they are treated like "less than" shit.

Sorry ladies but you just have to suck it up!! (excuse the pun)

Can't imagine anybody being so inconciderate to the ladies! Especially the sexy & gorgeous Meg!

Come on guys, appreciate these sexy girls.

Meg, I think the fact that the Pretoria/Johburg guys are so spoilt for choice with hundreds of beautiful ladies competing at reaonable rates must be a huge contibuting factor to the increase in this unacceptable behaviour. We poor Cape Town punters are being ripped off by every decent lady charging from R1800 to R2500 p/h. Come to CT and encourage your beautiful colleagues to join you! We would be so grateful to get a booking with a lovely lady charging a reasonable rate that we will never even contemplate not pitching!! Demand exceeds supply in CT by 1000 to 1or 2 at present.

On 2017-08-06 15:26:49 Tonie twine2 said:
Meg, I think the fact that the Pretoria/Johburg guys are so spoilt for choice with hundreds of beautiful ladies competing at reaonable rates must be a huge contibuting factor to the increase in this unacceptable behaviour. We poor Cape Town punters are being ripped off by every decent lady charging from R1800 to R2500 p/h. Come to CT and encourage your beautiful colleagues to join you! We would be so grateful to get a booking with a lovely lady charging a reasonable rate that we will never even contemplate not pitching!! Demand exceeds supply in CT by 1000 to 1or 2 at present.

What I find interesting is why aren't girls flocking there if that's the going rate and why is business not sustainable long term there that there aren't that many decent permanent service providers around?(I have heard that from various punters asking me to come down) It makes me second guess coming down...

If I had to travel where there's business I would be paying more for traveling and hotel cost.
So no we in a catch 22.

Hmm me suck it up???
Why should we?

Sorry but all my clients has been treated with respect... I don't care if I wash the fucking floors! I won't talk down on anyone or degrade anyone in my life!
If I do my job and still make you feel like you the only client I have.... some of us still do that you know!
I'm not even going to entertain the thought of clients being disrespectful.
Unfortunately there are a few odd peanuts in every packet!