So maybe this doesn't matter and maybe I am just curious. From a wg perspective, do you think us married punters are judged. What if a wg got married and left the business, how would she feel if her new man was punting. How do WG's feel, knowing that some of us have wives and families at home. I don't expect an honest answer from any of the ladies or even a reply. Just curious.

Here is an honest reply.....I don't give it too much thought. I wouldn't be able to do and enjoy a client if I thought too much abt his wife and marriage and kids. At one time I had to make a concious effort not to think about, ask questions about or listen to clients babbling on about the wives and kids. It now comes quite naturally to concentrate and focus on the session and the physical side of what we do and zone out when guys talk abt their families. I

Couldnt said it better... I agree Nadia...

Thanks for your honest reply Nadia

One of the reasons I suffer performance dip in a visit is precisely because I think about the wife and kids. Guilt can be a real S.O.B. During a visit

If I learnt anything about married life is that nobody actually knows what happens behind closed doors at home. Who are we to judge u? None of us are perfect? We are all just human beings with needs and and feelings.

Many of my clients are married and most of them love their wives. We do chat about our families, spouses, children. I have met and done treatments for some of their wives and children. It does not bother me in the least.

Over the years emotionally I have matured to the extent that it is not an issue for me if my partner has sex with other people. As long has I am given the same space and freedom. Doubt I could spend the rest of my life in a monogamous sexual relationship.

Sometimes married punters do have a troubled conscience and it spoils the session.

Marry, devoice, single, so what?

Racking up the posts there do not ?

Huh, I'm test ESA system for new member. They released all my posts at one time. Thanks them to give me a chance to rock up the post. Lol