What excuses to you guys use to leave. Do you tell the girl listen you are not my type? Or do you just walk out. I'm asking this question because I get the idea the most people on this post try to treat these girls decently and with respect.

It is a bit difficult to duck if you seen the girl on the web (assume the girl has decent,uptodate photos !) and made an appointment !! Depending on why you want to leave but if she is a bit of a dog I sometimes stay and believe me often surprised. The not-so-good lookers usually know they not to pretty and put more effort into the shag and service.

That is why, at a venue, it is worth, if allowed, just pitching up and window shopping. If you don't see what you want just say look I will come back later when the next shift comes on or when the other girls are here .....

I just tell it like it is: 'nothing did it for to me'.
But how do you handle the 'Intros'? have tried to start a conversation (to get a better look) with limited success. The ladies dart in and out. Any tips on handling the 'Intro'? Like slowing it down. A man is never to old to learn..

Hi guys,

Hope you are well...
Coming from a woman or girl in the business's perspective...

I know with myself when I see someone and even in this business and life in general I value honesty...

Most guys feel if they tell you openly you aren't what they are looking for that one will get offended... Some girls are that way, but in most cases, you might be suprised..

DaarrylJ, when I started in the buz and when I was in C.T I began working in clubs and most girls who are in clubs dont really enjoy intro's or conversations, they are looking to see as many clients in one night as possible the easiest way..

Only advice I have or can think of, Best is to say from the start when you choose a girl you like that you would like to chat first and see from there... maybe that will help...

Have a fantastic weekend..
Tash ;-)
xxx

Its damn difficult sometimes, and what makes it worse is when you cheked a poppie on the net and when you get to the venue some other poppie passes herself off as the one you booked..

But I've devised a cunning plan that seems to work for me:

with a very honest, sraightforward face you mention casually how much extra is the greek/G-S/Scat/OWO/FWO anyone of these where you know the girl will say no sorry, and you just say you must have misunderstood her ad etc... you're really looking for that... It works everytime for me! But if its really, really difficult, the old 'can I pay you afterwards, since I forgot my wallet in the car' trick also works.

Excellent Johan, I will remember this!

The best is to be honest. At a club or house, shall I say, the girls usually whip in and out with a quick intro from the 'Madame' (that is to say u'r a 'walk-in' and then you usually tell the Madame or receptionist (who is sometimes one of the poppies herself, and sometimes a damn good looking one at that, which disappoints u no end when u say... 'and what about YOU babe??, and she says 'sorry I'm only the receptionist' DAMN!)...

Anyway if there is no one to u'r liking just tell the receptionist/Madame that sorry no one suits u'r taste... and possibly soften it a bit by saying 'when is the next shift due... maybe I'll pop in then..' They do not have any problems with this approach... I mean they are in business too. (Except for one skank who ripped me off in Glenhove Rd once and asked me for a cancellation fee of R150.00 - rip-off! Argued with her but then the bruisers pitched out of the woodwork so I thought better of it!!) Needless to say never saw me there again.

If you have booked a specific lady after seeing her on the Internet... I do not believe u can make an excuse unless they try to pass u off onto someone else... Then I get the helling! But usually as someone has said above, u can have a pretty good time with someone who does not quite suit u'r taste... just requires a slight different mind set, which is sometimes made easier depending on hoe Jags u are!! :)

In a club with bar, etc where a lady approaches u and starts chatting, if I don?t click or I have my eye on someone else or sometimes I?m just there for a drink and a chat with one of my old acquaintances, then I'll buy them a drink or two but I tell them upfront, honestly that I'm really only here for a drink and to socialize and... 'Please feel free to leave me.... I know u need to earn a living too...' Most will chat for a while, excuse them selves politely by saying... 'yes I do need to go now and earn a buck... give me a peck on the cheek or a kiss and leave me... Honesty is the best policy. You don't wanna get a reputation of being mistrustful.....

you'll hardly get a reputation for being mistrustful if you for example booked via a newspaper ad or an internet ad where a poppie does not show her face, since after you play your cards to get your ass out of there you'll never see her again anyway. Honesty is not always the best policy, least of all in this biz.

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I've had a similar experience at some place in Colette drive.

I called and asked if the lady whose newspaper ad I was responding to was in and was told 'come on in, we've got plenty of girls here and they are always coming in and out'

When I arrived, I was told that I need to pay some figure (can't remember R150 or R250) before I could see the girls - which was supposedly the the price of a massage only. Then If I chose one of the girls I would have to pay a further R200 (or R250, 'twas a long time ago).

At first I thought it was just to ensure that they don't get chancers who just want to oogle at the girls. However, when I realised that their 'plenty or girls' were 4 tired looking skanks that dragged themselves through the viewing room, looking as disinterested as ever, I announced to the host that none of the girls appealed to me and I was really after the services specifically advertised in the paper. To my surprise, I was told that the 'down payment' was none refundable.

I ended up getting a crappy massage (for my money already paid).

Val

visited ZENDALEE in Cape Town many years back. They had a nude intro of all the girls and had to pay R150-00 up front. The service and girls was good though ...

Have fun! ;)