Good day ladies and gents

I want some advice. Or rather I just want a sounding board to know that I'm not crazy.

So I'm a young (25) decent looking guy, Pretty fit and in good shape.
I am married (recently) to a beautiful woman who I am very much in love with. Every day I just stare at her beauty and I'm in awe of her character and strength as well as her charms.

We have sex very often and she's almost always into it, like VERY into it. Like so often sometimes I can't keep up. I will admit it's not as kinky as i would like but it's always amazing.

So why am I saying all this you might be asking? Well what I want to know is after all of that... how come I always find myself on this site looking at these beautiful ladies and making booking after booking. I've tried to 'analyse' myself but I just don't know why. I'm not lacking anything at home and yet I can't seem to stop. I worry that one day this habit will ruin a very good thing and thus I'm trying to figure it out. Is there anyone who has gone through anything similar or am I just crazy.

Chancetaker, bad news..... this hobby WILL ruin your marriage! I would say go see a counselor and get some help, sounds like there are some underlying issues that needs to be sorted. If your wife is into 'it' , then you are a very lucky guy!! Plus you mentioned that she absalutely beautiful...... Go fight for what you already have! Or lose it all, your choice......

Maybe in your case you like variety. Or you like the kinky stuff more than you will admit to your wife.

For the sake of your marriage, communicate your feelings and desires. For all you know there is some middle-ground the two of you can agree on.

Punters are "normally" on here because of the exact opposite you described above...

Also very good advice mrShy!

On 2018-02-19 12:00:20 StoneColdSteve said:
Chancetaker, bad news..... this hobby WILL ruin your marriage! I would say go see a counselor and get some help, sounds like there are some underlying issues that needs to be sorted. If your wife is into 'it' , then you are a very lucky guy!! Plus you mentioned that she absalutely beautiful...... Go fight for what you already have! Or lose it all, your choice......

I totally agree with StoneColdSteve.... and you already know it just by saying you are scared it's going to ruin this beautiful marriage that you are in..... get help professionally because what you have some people might never even have the chance to experience in life.... xxx

I am in exactly the same situation as chancetaker. Except that i am much older. Been punting for 15 years - totally addicted to the variety & excitement. Needs to stop, but i cannot...

Maybe try and spend more time spoiling the beautiful women in your lives.... and take mrShy's advice on communicating.... maybe they are also looking for some excitement the way you like it.... do roll play.... book a hotel room, send her messages then to lure her there and make it an evening not one of you would ever forget. You have to make life interesting and exiting and it takes a bit of work but is so worth it in the end ;)

I think his situation harks back to that old saying: "no matter how hot a chick is, somewhere out there is a bra who got tired of fucking her"


@chancetaker, just becoz I'm nosy, I just want to know if you'd be ok if your vrou books and fucks Working Boys behind your back, or any other bra for that matter?

Boss, maybe you should ask her if she is interested in a FFM 3some that way you have her blessing to taste new punani.

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@chancetaker, just becoz I'm nosy, I just want to know if you'd be ok if your vrou books and fucks Working Boys behind your back, or any other bra for that matter?

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There you have it. That is the question.

This has touched a nerve. Many guys in a similar situation. Me too.
Food for thought, and some great advice coldstonesteve and Galaxy