Excuse me as I have a little chuckle to myself. Not that I find it funny, I don't know what to think of this whole issue. 24 year old me is still trying to figure out why married men are denied sex, or are not having sex with their wives. I read a comment from one of the punters (who is married) saying that he isn't getting sex at home. How and why? It's usually males that complain about sex drying up in a marriage. Is marriage draining? are children the reason why? Do woman stop liking sex as they get older? or gentlemen, is this an excuse to bed a younger and more attractive woman.

Steph94,there is a host of reasons on both sides that leads to a sexless marriage. If you google the topic, you can fill a library.

It could be emotional reasons, stress, anxiety, medication and the list goes on. I am in a similar situation and its damn difficult.

Each of us have there own reasons for being here, married or not.

On 2018-06-19 16:54:48 Steph94 said:
Excuse me as I have a little chuckle to myself. Not that I find it funny, I don't know what to think of this whole issue. 24 year old me is still trying to figure out why married men are denied sex, or are not having sex with their wives. I read a comment from one of the punters (who is married) saying that he isn't getting sex at home. How and why? It's usually males that complain about sex drying up in a marriage. Is marriage draining? are children the reason why? Do woman stop liking sex as they get older? or gentlemen, is this an excuse to bed a younger and more attractive woman.

To be completely honest with you. If I had known I might have been able to fix it.

You go through a "dry" spell with the kids at home, but once you back to only the two of you at home, that changes.

Unfortunately by then most have tasted the forbidden fruits of punting, and it is not an easy addiction, to overcome.

On 2018-06-19 17:50:24 jjsoap said:
On 2018-06-19 16:54:48

Unfortunately by then most have tasted the forbidden fruits of punting, and it is not an easy addiction, to overcome.

And it's not impossible to overcome either!

On 2018-06-19 18:24:59 Kimmylee said:
On 2018-06-19 17:50:24 jjsoap said: On 2018-06-19 16:54:48

Unfortunately by then most have tasted the forbidden fruits of punting, and it is not an easy addiction, to overcome.

And it's not impossible to overcome either!

Jip not impossible just dam difficult to do.

On 2018-06-19 18:53:09 jjsoap said:
On 2018-06-19 18:24:59 Kimmylee said: On 2018-06-19 17:50:24 jjsoap said: On 2018-06-19 16:54:48

Unfortunately by then most have tasted the forbidden fruits of punting, and it is not an easy addiction, to overcome.

And it's not impossible to overcome either!

Jip not impossible just dam difficult to do.

JJsoap I see why it would be difficult to stop because some of the ladies here are ridiculously gorgeous. I've only been able to visit only two ladies ever since I've discovered ESA a year ago, It's easier for me to fight off the temptations of making a booking whereas a Man who isn't getting any from his wife would find it difficult. I hope that I marry someone who will have a healthy appetite for the deed

Basic principle to follow,

Men need sex to feel better about themselves. Women need to feel special, loved and appreciated in order for them to have sex.

Men are physical, women are emotional.

Don't expect her to cook dinner, help the kids with homework, make everyones lunch for tomorrow, do the washing and ironing after a long day at work, and then expect her to climb into bed feeling like a sex goddess.

Give her a day off and run her a bath with candles and a glass of wine, you feed the kids put them to bed. Join her in the bath or help her out the tub and give her a massage... Pamper her.

Do "Date Night" at least once a week. No kids. Drop them at Grandma for the night!

Just a few tips.

Mwah

Arz

So as mentioned earlier you could fill a library with this issue. My personal experience with this; I am early 30's married with a 2 year old. It's been incredibly difficult getting time for sex, at some points I have been arguing with the other half about it. It's a combination of stress, work, baby, co-sleeping, no time etc etc etc.

Fortunately she has seen the light and we now have a more active sex life (hence I haven't punted in a long time) although at times it takes some convincing to get it going.

That being said, I have had to do a lot more than usual. I am fully sufficient in doing everything around the house, taking care of our little one, cooking, cleaning up, massaging her as often as she requests (ok maybe not that often). But I have to put in a lot of work to get to a place we were sexually about 3 years ago. My gripe is that it should not be this way, I can stay up at night to have sex, she sleeps in 5 minutes, I want to take advantage of baby sleeping during the day and shag, but she wants to watch a movie instead. But yeah that my personal story with it.

@Avenger25. Hang there bud, atleast you are mindful of the problem and possible causes. You seem to keep the communication channels open.

Lack of patience and silence is always the enemy.

It's simple... with women so hot n sexy we need to unwind... no wonder God created more women lmao... variety is a spice of life! Sum1 needs to support sexy galz... wink wink