So here goes... any of u have experience in this? What's the do's & dont's? How does one go about this blah blah blah. Would love to listen learn and maybe try... wink wink

Dad I have never tried it. But, a thought comes to mind are you emotionally ready for this. Is your partner jealous?

Sure the ladies will be of more assistance.

Enjoy if you find the right lady!

I might be thinking along the lines of getting a guy.... oooooooooohhhhhhh

Had to rejoin ESA to comment on this..it's a tricky one. My wife found out I was seeing prostitutes and threw the expected total wobbly. However, she then admitted it really turned her on.. We lived in a remote location, so I tried to get her to attend a swingers club in Gauteng or visit a couple's freindly ESA lady (I had lined up naughtymandy) when we made a trip to the big city. Sadly she didn't have the nerve then.
However, a year or two later she had again discovered I had seen escorts in cape town whilst on business trips. Although very pissed with me, again she found it excited her, so we arranged a trip to cape town and had our first (and only) threesome with a lovely busty ebony lady there (candy/Danielle-not on ESA) who i had seen previously and I think was as tickled by the experience. It was good, and we were both so turned on we had a serious session as soon as we got back to our accomodation.
Since then we have talked about repeating it, my wife joined ESA (nympho was her user name) for a bit, but I have was working in another country she didn't want to live in and sadly now I am living in Europe separated from my wife. Very sad as she was a very sexual woman.
So my situation was a bit bizarre, and probably not likely to apply to many, but guys should not underestimate their partners sexuality and willingness to try new things.

Lordnome2 - what an awesome story. sorry sad but still awesome. it's really something if a couple makes a booking and they enjoy it together and I feel very special being part of it

Just be 100% sure your partner is 100% game for it and not just doing it to keep you happy.
And be sure your marriage and especially your sex life at home is good before bringing in a 3rd party. If the guy you bring in is a better lover than you it may backfire on you.

I think the key is to not force the issue. I was seriously pissed off and frustrated when she didn't want to take advantage of being on Pretoria/Joburg to indulge..I had a real sulk!! I should maybe have tried a bit more persuasion for her to maybe visit a girl herself..swinging is a big step.
In perspective, she is really into anal sex now, but had been very hesitant to try that..we tried it once before marriage and it was way too sore for her. Many years later she was reading a porn mag I had (swank I recall) which had an article about anal sex, and she wanted to try it again. It didn't work the first few times we tried, but eventually (over the months) she relaxed enough, and now, when turned on enough really loves it. Not always, but often enough!.
So it's a lot of patience and encouragement. But many partners of both sexes will probably never have the trust or self confidence to try.
My wife prefers the weather in southern Africa to that of Europe, so that seems more important than anything else!
Women!!

Thanks guyz for the msgs... nadia... u mean if his cock is bigger n better lmao.... mmmmm mmmm.

Lol ok. Let's see where this leads us anyways.

Maybe one day when we away on a ship cruise or holiday ... Might be a perfect time...