What does one read into when one PM's a WG and you dont even get the courtesy of a reply

She is most probably a very busy lady and don't need any more business ;)

For me its one of the 2:
1) if she didn't read it, then she is probably busy or is not a PM person then I give her the benefit of doubt and make the call
2) if she red it and didn't bother to update in her profile that she doesn't respond to PMs or in the least send me a 1 word response to say 'call' I assume she doesn't need my business or has attitude and i just take my business elsewhere.

Perhaps it means she is careful and would rather engage with you telephonically before taking the next step. Talk. Most of us did not begin relationships being pen pals.

I don't really let it get to me as I have come to realise not everybody sits and chats and replies like how I do... sometimes so many people msg them that they themselves cant keep up. Yeah unless it's a WG that is active on the forums then I would be concerned (which hasn't happened yet)

On 2019-08-17 07:56:14 Former_Vuyisile said:
For me its one of the 2:
1) if she didn't read it, then she is probably busy or is not a PM person then I give her the benefit of doubt and make the call
2) if she red it and didn't bother to update in her profile that she doesn't respond to PMs or in the least send me a 1 word response to say 'call' I assume she doesn't need my business or has attitude and i just take my business elsewhere.

Think you hit the nail on it's head ;)

Or maybe she just has PMS. Get it? Get it?

you all have phones so why not use it!!!! Ping pong messages are for the gents who hopes he can engage in conversation rather than making the call. I always reply "please call"

Here are two more scenarios to consider:

I know of many ladies that have zero website savvy and many ladies that have dyslexia.
I sometimes sit with these ladies and she will tell me what to reply but I'm busy and I don't see them everyday so pm's get opened and not replied to till its too late.

Another reason, the ladies have no clue who you are but if you call, then she can hear if she wants to share all her details with you or not.

Assuming she is rude or too busy or just plain dumb could be your loss.



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We also do ckearly state our preferences.

Ie: please call or watsapp for details.

And on our profiles.

Please just respect the Ladies choices when they are clearly stated. No need to get insulting or demeaning about it.