The WFH challenge is real and finding time and excuses to get out of the "new" office environment is proving very challenging.

So when I do make a booking and set everything up to be out for a few hours .... and the lady has a sudden emergency, I get extremely frustrated! No - I am not going to name and shame because the emergency may have been real. So far I am getting a 2 out of 3 hit rate for sessions with 1/3 cancellations at short notice. I like to plan ahead and don't like taking the chance on the "available now" list, many of whom are not actually "available now".

So now the challenge for my fellow passengers in this punting ship (and any ladies who chose to contribute): do I make 2 or 3 bookings for the same time and when I leave home for the booking, check my punting phone which is usually off and hidden, and then see who has let me down. Based on who is actually available - continue with the booking.

Obviously - need to be polite and cancel the others. But it will be 30 minutes before the session, just like some ladies have been doing to me.

On 2022-01-29 13:31:19 2old2 said:
The WFH challenge is real and finding time and excuses to get out of the "new" office environment is proving very challenging.

So when I do make a booking and set everything up to be out for a few hours .... and the lady has a sudden emergency, I get extremely frustrated! No - I am not going to name and shame because the emergency may have been real. So far I am getting a 2 out of 3 hit rate for sessions with 1/3 cancellations at short notice. I like to plan ahead and don't like taking the chance on the "available now" list, many of whom are not actually "available now".

So now the challenge for my fellow passengers in this punting ship (and any ladies who chose to contribute): do I make 2 or 3 bookings for the same time and when I leave home for the booking, check my punting phone which is usually off and hidden, and then see who has let me down. Based on who is actually available - continue with the booking.

Obviously - need to be polite and cancel the others. But it will be 30 minutes before the session, just like some ladies have been doing to me.

Dear, listen to your heart...

Do your thing....


My clients know that I am reliable, I respect my appointments,....

And I respect their appointments, but sometimes we can't control the obstacles.......,

I only take 2bookings per day and I allow many hours between the sessions.

I don't get mad when 1 or both cancel at last minute, because I understand that sometimes we are not in control....

Go ahead and say or do what you wish....

**No kisses**

Ive done exactly this on a few occasions.
If both are still there and ready, the punter has to make a final decision and this way it will be a disappointment for 1 lady, and that terrible frustration is avoided.
But the better way here is to have a club as alternative visit venue.
This way once you get news that your special lady announces a cancelation, you think, well this means I'm off to HOE, other venue with a variety of great ladies to pick and choose .
But nothing to stop you from going to have it all today.

As said do as you please.. you are the ruler of your kingdom;)

My personal opinion though, double booking whether it is punter or SP doing it is bad practice. It is disrespectful. It is a waste of other people's time and money.

You end up punishing the realiable ones, because if you where certain about your first choice lady you booked or punter appointment request you accepted, no one would need to book a *backup* plan.

Maybe start by choosing beter, choose more reliable SPs to begin with or screen clients beter work harder to build a regular client base that is reliable.

The odd "life happens" does happen occasionaly but it should not be a common/normal thing.

Stop rewarding SPs and Punters by agreeing again to see them if they are habitual canclers and no shows.

Only ones people stop accepting shitty habits as common/normal will cancelations and no shows stop.

Because the no shows will struggle to set appointments and the canclers will feel it in their pockets.

Xxx
L

I am so sorry to hear about your disappointment.
Your story has two sides. I run my own company and have limited hours. When I shuffle my diary to accommodate the punters and lose on my business income too because the punter didn't notify me I get extremely upset.

However I agree with Frank the tank. Have a venue as a backup in mind. Confirm with your lady (it's good manners) 30 minutes before the time minimum...

I have a kiss and make up system. If for any reason I have to cancel an appointment I add extra time to my punters next appointment, dress in something extra special just for them and spoil them rotten.

Love
Caroline

Frank is right.. book your lady if she cancels on you then only phone your second choice or head to a venue where there are plenty ladies waiting for a guy just like you to walk through the door.

By doing the double book thing and cancelling one at the last minute, you are punishing a lady who has nothing to do with your bad experiences and possibly she loses money because of your past experiences which she knows nothing of and she isn't even the one who dropped you.

On 2022-01-29 13:31:19 2old2 said:


Obviously - need to be polite and cancel the others. But it will be 30 minutes before the session, just like some ladies have been doing to me.

But the ladies you will be cancelling will not be the ladies who did it to you.

I hate cancelling any appointment, and when it has happened it's only been because of legitimate reasons, but it makes me feel really bad. Your situation does suck but don't waste other people's time. Don't double book.

On 2022-01-29 13:31:19 2old2 said:
...Obviously - need to be polite and cancel the others. But it will be 30 minutes before the session, just like some ladies have been doing to me...

No bud...don't do that.
It's tough times out there, and you could be the ONLY booking for the lady/ladies that you cancel with.
Furthermore she/they could have turned away other clients for that same time slot.

I usually have a favourite or three...that I can call at short notice, just in case a lady cancels with me at the last minute.