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Posted: 2022-03-26 11:58:07
Edited: 2022-03-26 12:01:27

It saddens me to post this ...

I love what I do!
Giving pleasure and watching the thrill rush though every inch of client's body!

Bonding with my clients and having them become more friends than just another booking.

Having my clients walk away feeling great!
To offer my clients a moment of relaxation and sensuality, out of their demamding and hectic day.
Just a moment to forget every thing and feel like a king and on top of the world.

But in order for me to do this To give all I have to give :
Touch
Sensuality
Calm energy with a
Tranquil clean space
Skill and technique
Myself: Well Groomed ,Fresh and Healthy.

I also do require a few things
Respect towords:
my body
My time
My boundaries

I need to be able to move as slow or fast as I need. Without a client taking advantage of me in any position I need to take.

I need to be able to trust my client ,that He anderstands I do not offer certain services and that he wont try to take it by force.
Or continuously offer to pay for it.
(It really kills the mood If it feels like No is not a understandable word)

I need my client to relax and not rush the prosses as my routine is perfect with lots of time for mutaul play and to spice things up... so the experience is real and intimate and personal.

I need my client to mindfull of how he smells, after all I do provider a shower with luxurious quality body products and mouth wash.

So even if I don't offer
FH or O, it doesn't mean my session or my services is
Incomplete
Unsatisfactory
Or Worthless.

As there are soooo many things one can do and achieve on a sexual level without actual penetration...
What I offer is a diffrent side to sexuality wich is very pleasing.

All can only be done with some kind of respect and trust, even if it is just to a certain degree.

The sad reality is that some client's try to get a "Pornstar" experience (bareback ,owo ect.)
and wants to pay for a sensual massage.
This is borderline to rape!
If this is your mentality,
PLEASE DONT BOOK ME.

I work at a Upmarket Massage Only Venue, clients comming to us is looking for the pleasures of touch and Sensual play.

For the Gents ,Ladies and Couples out there looking for the same thing.
I just want to say,
I am here for YOU to offer a Session where Every second is about You !!!

My whole aim and concept of my work is:
holistic
natrual
uncomplicated
unrushed
Genuine and wholesome.

Any critic coming from this ,it's fine really.
But It is high time someone speaks up.
Kylie

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Posted: 2022-03-31 09:03:18

At least it's clear that you're a massage girl. Some girls do not make it very clear, and are outraged when potential clients asks if there is an extra price for OWO, etc
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Posted: 2022-03-31 09:17:55

Thank you
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Posted: 2022-04-01 11:13:38

I totally feel u girl. I'm in exactly the same position as not offering more. There are plenty ladies that offers all that.

Can we as professional holist and qualified massues please be respected.

Our aim is to pamper and spoil u.

Ps u a gorgeous
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Posted: 2022-04-01 18:33:28

Thank you
Sensual Natalie

I would love to convince every single punter out there to try Sensual Massage at least once.

It's different, it's healing and revitalizing...

Surrendering in your therapist hands ,to let go and get truely pampered...

Ps Stunning Lady yourself:)
Kylie
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Posted: 2022-04-02 09:27:04
Edited: 2022-04-02 09:41:35

Morning @Kylie
Ive come to realize it's the reality of the sex industry.
Guys should become aware that's their full service providers and non full services providers in the industry.

In the past this would drive me absolutely insane as a Dominatrix and not understand my services.

Today What's apps or calls of Hi and how much..Now I go for what? As I know immediatly that its a full house boy.
It's also when boys are hornys and big brain gone to small brain and see a pretty lady and haven't realized that our services are placed in diffrent columns for a reason regarding what we specialize in.

Other times it's just an energy vampire wanting to get a high rise out of you.
Other times he feel like an numb nut when you tell him their no full house on offer and swears at you and cut the call telephonically.

Others times it's his believe systems of everything has a price even you and the relationship he shares with himself women and relationship with money regarding the conquer mentality.

The key to working through these issues and challenges is to not take anything mentally and emotionally personally regarding you're services and to make peace with the fact that's its part of the industry You in.

Hope this helps you and look at other ways to work with an manage these challenges you face in the sex industry of not being a full service provider .

All the best
Gail .
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Posted: 2022-04-04 07:42:08
Edited: 2022-04-04 07:44:11

Thank you ,it's very helpful.
I deeply appreciate your insights to this.
As this is a very sensitive topic.

My point however is:
Clients going through ALL the trouble to make a booking and coming for a Sensual Massage session and
yet they wanted more.
Then push for it in two ways;

1)To pay for it.
(wich is still acceptable)
As some Massage Girls do offer more at an additional cost.

2)Or simply take advantage of a lady in the moment that she is in a vunruble position.
Pushing themselves in (obviously wothout a condom) or going down on a lady in a front body to body slide.

That's rape.

That is what happened to me And countless times before ,to so many Massage Girls working with me.
And this is then simply turend againts your as your own fault.

My piont is :
The client came in for an appointment.
(To a Sensual Massage Only)
with the idea and intention of doing this
(in the first place!)

Why?
Because they wanted fullhouse but didn't want to pay for that?
Or just wanted to take it for free without consent without a condom?
Worst part is it's then apparently your own fault as you (the service provider) should've not done a,b,c ...as it teased them over the edge,as if you made them loose selfcontrol ,as if you wanted them to break your boundries!


This is the sad Reality.

As a service provider I want to offer an amazing and professional but still intamate SESSION to my clients.
I can not do this if I feel I am in actual danger of being taken advantage of.

This however is not the case with every singel punter ,
I have some really great clients!!!

And I appreciate them ,the experience I have with them and the continuous support!

Kylie

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Posted: 2022-04-04 09:50:07

Morning I've dm you
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Posted: 2022-04-04 23:52:50

Kylie,
am so sorry to hear this :( Clients need to understand NO means No.
If you need to talk feel free to contact me, anytime.
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Posted: 2022-04-05 00:51:47

Im also too sorry to HERE this happend hope you doin fine Angel...

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