In the beginning of my punting journey it was more of exploring but as I did I just didn't feel good about myself,I felt like I had no game whatsoever and thought it was really lame.

But now I have like 3 side chicks who look really really beautiful,like omw but all of them want to kick my main chick out the picture and it's frustrating all of them don't want to be sides but mains and yes it's nice and stuff better than punting because it gives you an ego boost when you getting really curvy pretty girls, and they really into you and you can get sex when you want without having to spend so much like punting and knowing I'm 25 and they are in their late 20's and Early 30's,makes me wonder if I really had this game why was I punting.

But essentially having side chicks is a lot of work and you gotta manage,time,feelings and emotions,and no women wants to be aside especially if you treating her right,and I do tell them I have a girl,so my thinking is they cool with being a side but no I guess as they see how you treat them then they want to be the main.

So I've decided to go back to punting because yes the girls are beautiful and they feeling me but it's too stressful and a lot work hiding WhatsA messsge,them getting angry at you because u didn't call a certain day and I don't think no man in his right mind will his main girl for a side chick even if she's the prettiest girl in the world.

So yeah ,I'm back to punting ,it might be kinda lame but if I'm back the girl has to be of the same level of side chicks in terms of looks and body.

But yeah if anyone has had the same experience,I'd also like to hear your experience in this topic,or anyone who would like to comment

Of late i am less active in punting because of side chicks. But once in a while I do return to the purple world because it also has it perks.

With side chicks the trick is to declare upfront that you have a person (even if you don't ) to manage expectations. You can make them sides even when there is no main, just saying. And in almost all the cases they will gladly accept the offer. But unlike ESA, with more time spent together, feelings tend to come on board and some bit of jealousy when they need more time, or your availability whenever they need you. Can be costlier than punting, can be cheaper depending on how you manage expectations.

The advantage is that I believe (i might be wrong) that you get a lady with less activity, less mileage and someone who is more readily available. And they can be gorgeous! And you can get all the perks of a boy friend. Each has their advantages and disadvantages and i think one can't completely replace the other. For me its more like which phase of my life am i in.

Side chicks always say it's cool, they have no feelings ... well that's until they do ... and then all hell breaks loose ... I have got at least two t-shirts where this happened and I had to resort to what I do for a living to ensure that I stopped things dead in their tracks.

For me, unless it's a one night stand, no side chicks.

Don't think there is really something like a side chick, very soon they going to expect more than just being a "side chick" (might work if your side chick is also married.

Last week I did something silly, I ordered 3 side dishes/ starters from the menu because the mains looked boring and I was feeling for variety. After the meal I was still hungry, and when the bill came, it was double what a decent main would have costed.

The hardest part of a side chick, is that at some point you are going to have to break their heart.

So now I prefer to deal in the transactional, rather than the emotional

On 2023-12-17 11:44:17 J_J said:
Last week I did something silly, I ordered 3 side dishes/ starters from the menu because the mains looked boring and I was feeling for variety. After the meal I was still hungry, and when the bill came, it was double what a decent main would have costed.

+1
hahahahah
totally agree

On 2023-12-17 23:23:37 xenon69 said:
The hardest part of a side chick, is that at some point you are going to have to break their heart.

So now I prefer to deal in the transactional, rather than the emotional

Does this mean if you request BB and she has a baby from you, then its not your problem because you paid for the booking?

Been there, saw my ass solid. All fun and games in the beginning and like guys say, assoon as emotions etc comes into play, it is a recioe for disaster. Punting way easier.

The problem with side chicks / friends with benefits is that someone is either going to want more or less. But it never just stays as is. Punting is far simpler and you have far more choice.