What are ur thoughts if....ladies change of mind / body../

Ie:
Booked and paid upfront without meeting, on the day....she cancels....she says we can meet but no oral or sex, no touching...she is not on period either. From the chat (my assumption) she had bad experience.....it seems as if she doesn't want to do this work at all....i did not ask a refund....not sure to expect one? Do ladies or punters experience anxiety closer to booking....? I did not ask for a refund....because i could tell her emotional state was not 100%....did not want to be a asshole...where do we draw the line?.....how do tell if its true...or scam...

Send me R 1000 and then I'll tell you if you got scammed.

Wanting to cancel is everyone's right and I am sure she had a good reason.

But she should give you a refund and you should not have paid upfront. It is better for everyone involved.

A small deposit like R100 or R150 is acceptable.... But the whole lot upfront is ridiculous

I honestly think you should get your money back....as some of the girls do this too often

I do know there are valid reasons for cancelling....but then the money should be sent back immediately

Just my 10cents

Kisses

Milah

U can send me 500 rand and i wil tell u too if Lagen and this girl is scamming you. I think this girl and Lagen is working together. Hahahaha

Give me 2000 and I'll make sure pampoen vreeter (don't judge my poor Afrikaans) is not making you a pampoen lol and I'll make sure my emotional state is sound

But yes, as a punter I get anxious for every meet even with regulars. There is a lot of mental and emotional work in providing the service and there's also emotion that lingers after you've done the deed as a punter... In the end, there's no playbook is what I've learnt. You're paying strangers to do things to you and thus you'll experience stranger things with each person. I get so peeved when a hot girl is just talking cause she enjoys my company but at the same time I understand they are human and need connection as individuals it sometimes leads to wild romping and pomping and sometimes I leave sexually unsatisfied but happy to have spent the time lol there are no rules in how you mentally process this game

Had to make changes before the Grammar warriors arrive lol

I can cancel if there's no money involve but this one I'm sure u got scammed

Rescheduling is understandable...outright cancellation after accepting funds and committing to an appointment, now that's a scam. Ask for your money back, but i wouldn't get my hopes high if I were you.

We do get anxious before an appointment, sometimes we are excited and sometimes just not feeling it...yes, we are human or life just happens and we cant be available. It's only professional to cancel well ahead of time, or reschedule to a time that suits both parties.

1. This is why you should never ever pay upfront.

2. If she cancels like that, then she should refund you the full fee PLUS pay you a cancellation fee for wasting your time and effort organising and paying etc.

N4P