I've noticed that many of the girls don't look like their pics in real life, is there anyway to fix this as this seriously ruins ones punt when arriving and the girl looks nothing like her pictures.
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Re: Girls not looking like profiles in real life
Re: Girls not looking like profiles in real life
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Posted: 2015-11-13 09:01:51
i got into so much trouble the last time i mentioned this issue, id love to hear the responce to all this. but on the contrary. ive met girls who look far better than their pics too. i usually do research by searching for other ads in other sites using her number. that usually gives me a relatively close impression of the girl even before calling.
Bbw Nadia Blows
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There's something guys never expand on whenever I post on threads re photos and reality. There's is something to be said for perception and interpretation.....nobody views pics with a completely neutral mind. Remember that sketch of a lady....sometimes you see the young woman and sometimes the old lady....all in the same pic. Some guys have told me I am bigger in reality and others have said they thought I was smaller than they imagined....the pics on all my ads are basically the same. One guy said i didn't have a tummy bulge in my pics. Have a looke at my pics....the spare tyre's there. There's no mistaking me even if i use a different name. So how would one account for the different opinions? I can only put it down to perception.
Guys post in the review of a lady that she doesn't look like her pics or she was skin and bines or looked like a druggies. Now when I look at the same pics and I think what didn't he see in the pics 'cos to me its very obvious the lady's skin and bones. Not that I'm right in my perception, but what we see in a pic is clouded by our life experiences, prejudices and preconceived notions.
However I won't deny there are places who pull a bait and switch.
Need4Passion
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Yes, unfortunately it is very common. Made me stop looking for new each time and sticking to a good one when you find it. I've had instances where the wg looked better although still very different but that's like 1 in 1000 when it happens.
I also do what Blackdiamond does and find them on other sites with high resolution pictures and usually clear facial pics. The extra effort has saved me quite a bit of school fees.
Chmoks
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Nadia,
love your contributions here, never told you that yet.
Recently I made a post about a girl's profiles, 1 here & 1 on the white pages. Same number, same suburb, the one profile of a rather Buxom bit fuller young woman whilst the other (on here) was of a skinny flat-chested (no offense pls) youngish girl - note the glaring differences pls.
I'm not talking about perception, interpretation or dream-expectations, I am talking about two very different women.... but same number, same area!
Question is, which site is correct in displaying her, taking into consideration that here we're served quite recent pics?
I'd be tempted to say ESA's correct, but how must the photographer know no switching is happening? No guarantees....
Oh, yeah, a lot rarer than misperceptions led or fed by the artistic freedom of the snappers but still, it happens.
Naledi
Naledi -
Re: Girls not looking like profiles in real life
I know with the blue site its easy for one to use another girls photos. Some house owners do this because photographers can take up to a week or 2 to put up a new ad. So if I had a house & A used to work here I have her reference, then B comes to work here but doesn't have a profile, all I do is deposit money, call and say my name is A, my reference is 123, I made a 300 deposit at absa menlyn at 1:43, please change my area & phone number. By the time you hang up, As profile is live but when you pitch for the appointment, you see B the new girl
Need4Passion
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Re: Girls not looking like profiles in real life
I think he is talking about girls looking different than the pics on this site. I know I was. I use the other sites to double check the pics here after too many occurrences of finding a very different wg in front of me when I visit, often one that I would never have visited if I knew she actual looked the way she did in real life.
Naledi
Naledi -
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Chmok, I do get what you're saying. Yes, there are cases of bait and switch. That is a fundamental truth.
I think we may be talking of different scenarios. Both of which hold true. I think there is a dilemma for websites. If like you say the photographer rocks up and takes pics of size 32 Suzy.....he took a picture of a real, live, size 32 Suzy. He has no control over whether the lady presenting herself to you a week later is size 36 Dawn.
Often venues/ houses have several different ladies advertising on the same number. Some don't want ladies using their own numbers.
Chmoks
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Re: Girls not looking like profiles in real life
Nads, white pages is the P retoria syte, Francois'
I'm definitely not talking about a House's ad, this is a normal single WG - and indeed the pics are from 2 different women.
Bottom line has to be that noone can guarantee the authenticity of the girl, or at the bare minimum that 'that' girl (refer pics!) IS the one we've photographed... sizzling Suzy, but after dawn Dawn rolls in ;-)
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