I lost my mum about 3 months ago. I lost all sexual feelings as her death really hit me hard. My wife has been understanding however about two weeks ago she communicated that she wanted to be intimate again. She tried to make it special but I couldn't respond at all. Now I don't want to push my wife away, I can't take a pill as I have hypertension but I want to perform. Is there any form of massage that can perhaps wake up my dead penis? Should I book a WG to try and fuck hard(which I would never do on my wife as I'm gentle with her) so that I bring back the feelings? This is under the assumption that Wgs can perform miracles.

My mom and dad has also passed away and we all have feelings in this regard. Unfortunately I can't do anythig about your feelings.
I can make sure that we fuck each other properly and have lots of fun. Hopefully this will help you when approaching your wife.
The only alternative is medical.
NEVER see yourself as a loser
Bring your horny dick here

You are fighting your own demons inside you. To book a wg. Thinking if u destroy her you wil feel better again wont work. I dont think you dick is the problem but u are ur own problem cause of the loss of your mother. My condolences

I think because of that you are pushing everyone away which is understandable but u wil get through it. The way u speak it means u love your wife alot. Dont loose her too. The two of you can start slow. Do your own massage together. Get the touch going again. Touch each other show affection. You wil come right

Just for the record you not a loser

On 2024-07-06 17:00:14 lasttime80 said:
I lost my mum about 3 months ago. I lost all sexual feelings as her death really hit me hard. My wife has been understanding however about two weeks ago she communicated that she wanted to be intimate again. She tried to make it special but I couldn't respond at all. Now I don't want to push my wife away, I can't take a pill as I have hypertension but I want to perform. Is there any form of massage that can perhaps wake up my dead penis? Should I book a WG to try and fuck hard(which I would never do on my wife as I'm gentle with her) so that I bring back the feelings? This is under the assumption that Wgs can perform miracles.

Rather go for therapy, clearly there are some unresolved issues regarding what happened. Sorry to have to say it, but it is all in your head. Given the title you chose for this topic, I suspect you are deeply depressed and that is probably why you are having the problems are you. So do yourself a favor and rather see a professional and get to the deeper issues.

I have hypertension and my cardiologist thought the blue pill was fine. Have you talked to a doctor?

I second majorjohn

Seek out professional medical therapy asap. Nothing to be ashamed of. Easy to find a counselor if you reach out to your medical aid or your company's employee wellness program.

The situation you described does not make you a loser - you need to stop that line of thought immediately...

On 2024-07-06 17:45:23 majorjohn said:
On 2024-07-06 17:00:14 lasttime80 said: I lost my mum about 3 months ago. I lost all sexual feelings as her death really hit me hard. My wife has been understanding however about two weeks ago she communicated that she wanted to be intimate again. She tried to make it special but I couldn't respond at all. Now I don't want to push my wife away, I can't take a pill as I have hypertension but I want to perform. Is there any form of massage that can perhaps wake up my dead penis? Should I book a WG to try and fuck hard(which I would never do on my wife as I'm gentle with her) so that I bring back the feelings? This is under the assumption that Wgs can perform miracles.

Rather go for therapy, clearly there are some unresolved issues regarding what happened. Sorry to have to say it, but it is all in your head. Given the title you chose for this topic, I suspect you are deeply depressed and that is probably why you are having the problems are you. So do yourself a favor and rather see a professional and get to the deeper issues.

Well said. This goes way deeper than just sex. You need to give yourself a break and work through the emotional aspect of this. It is not a quick fix situation. And stop calling yourself names and putting yourself down. I have been through what you are going through now, you are welcome to message to chat. Time heals and you will get through this xxx

If you need help pleasing the wife as a friend il gladly try to help you out.

You are a true friend and gentleman kickass