I never knew anything about punting until a 3 years ago when a friend of mine told me that he's done with asking women out who would require dates and long term commitment when all he wants is to release the poison. Out of curiosity I got home and searched the sites he mentioned and boom a new world was discovered. How I then got in was I figured I could get some niche fetishes without the embarrassment of rejection and judgment because some women find it offensive when you cum in their mouth and stuff like anal and receiving rimming are too hard to table, so online I go to find the services required. Sex is easily accessible to me but it's the fetishes that have kept me around because you won't find me going for the norm when I can get it next door.

Good question fam. Met a girl at the club whom I discovered was an escort at the time. She showed me her profile here on the purple site and all her "friends" she used to work with. She's very attractive mind you including her "friends" who are still on the site and very attractive too. Never looked back because it's the attractive girls I solely book on the site

Pretty much the same reasons as you - it's easier to find sexual partners who will indulge my fetishes.

My foot fetish got me here many moons ago. Back when there was still another forum that thought it was a competitor.

I started just before covid hit. I was really stressed out at the time from work and my personal life. I was really going through some shit. I don't drink smoke or do any drugs and i am not the type of guy who would spend money on therapy either but i knew i just needed something to release all my tension and stress I just didn't know what.

During that time each time i knocked off work i would see these ads of the red site on the route i would take back home. So one day i just randomly googled the site . At first i would just treat it as a porn site just scrolling seeing what i like and jerking off, did that for about 6 months straight.

What i really liked about it was that the ladies looked real unlike porn sites and the fact that i could make my fantasies come true by just calling them is what ended up reeling me in. The first time i booked felt incredible it was like breaking virginity all over again.

I got hooked when i knew i could book any girl i want whenever i want and had no obligation to even send a text back let alone a visit again . I love it

Lol since I started puberty I use to call the adds in newspapers for phone sex. Then use to see WG's late night at Oxford road. That stuck with me, then in 2020 I discovered ESA, contacted few ladies but for the whole year never booked one, the concept felt preposterous, I just WhatsApp or call and bam its guaranteed I get a pretty lady, I never looked back.

THe partner of 20 years, lost interest in s@x. Not her fault, medical problems.
I started cruising escort sites for months.Not sure what to do with the info. Never encountered the industry at all.
One morning after a great financial windfall, I saw a stunner, and met her an hour later.
It was awesome, she was stunning and I was addicted.
We really clicked and are still friends, long after she left the industry.

Started out with picking up street walkers or visiting brothels. Then graduated to classsifieds online platforms. Then a random Google search made me find ESA and I never looked back since.

My higher than average libido lead me here tbh.

Lady friends were regularly getting massages for sore muscles, knots, etc. I googled massage in Johannesburg and fell down the rabbit hole.

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Before leaving school, my hair started going grey. Girls my age weren't interested in me because I guess they thought I was sick or something. Or it was to weird for them.

I was also maturer than most boys and It was easy for me to talk to older people. Older women likened me to Richard Gere or Harrison ford. And thus started my fetish in older women.

However none were keen and taken ny virginity, pushing me to be with girls my age.

So i hit classified ads which in turn led to establishments. I found one in particular that I like in Northriding went by the name of U2. had a bar pool, rooms and plenty of girls.

Would spend many nights there just going for a drink and eye the ladies. One night this blond woman, 40s good looking, slender start working there and she really caught my eye. Caught me looking at her. She broke the ice coming to chat, 2 drinks, however I was a bit naive about someone her suggestions to get a room. I think she figured I was there to get laid but still a virgin. She made the push to get me to a room and well got me hooked.