I know this topic shouldn't be here. But have you ever had a problem with a partner using drugs/drinks before or during your visit? How does that affect you(the one not using it) doesn't it f### up the booking for you? The only reason im asking is that clients complain about it and dont want to visit the ladies that does use it. Now for the person who use it... is this the only way you can cope doing this business? Im the last one to judge, please don't misunderstand. But you got so much to live for, why do you F### up your life like this? I don't tolerate that S### in my house thats why i wont entertain anyone that's under the influence of any substance.

I been with WGs who use coke openly during a booking. And these are "upmarket" wgs some who are still on the bizz. And the odd wg who would smoke a joint

I think my problem is, i am sometimes working double shifts and then the clients had a few drinks before visiting me , so i don't like kissing someone that used alcohol and i haven't take something with them. Think i must sound like im full of shit (perhaps i am), but is there ladies that's also the same problem?

Muja, but how does that make u feel? Some clients say this makes the lady perform beta? I think its just an excuse!

oh ok. get your point now. yeah I been to venues and saw punters fucking pissed out of there heads and I also wonder how do wgs put up with these assholes during a booking.

#But is there ladies that also experience the same problem.... Do you just keep quite?

Yes thats my question....?

I get uncomfortable with such clients... Some clients even ask if u take and wen I say no the hang up... So I totally don't take those bookings ... Very scary ... Some get very paranoid and all over the place ... So am not interested.....

You are NOT full of shit. You have to look out for YOU. I wouldn't be caught dead in the presence of drug use in my personal life, so why would I tolerate it in my business life.
I've never done drugs, but I had issues with alcohol. Today, I cannot stand alcohol breath. I have developed a very sharp 6th sense and I can pick up very easily when guys have been drugging or boozing. I rather avoid what could be a potential problem. I'd rather turn down the booking because I work from home, by myself and can't afford problems. There was a time when I could handle the drunks and druggies, these days I don't want to deal with them. I might have felt differently if I was within the security of a venue where there's safety in numbers, I don't know. Besides both here and on the blue site my ads state quite clear that I will not see druggies or drunks. I have worked with drug-using ladies and for me they were more of a problem when they were coming down than when they were high although that was also a problem.
BTW here's the latest catch phrase I picked up 'I just wanna chill'- it seems to be commonly used by the drug using sector of the public.

@Meg, In my humble opinion it is something I am starting to see more and more off on the East Rand where I do most of my running around.

I myself don't drink, or use any herbal or chemical at all. But growing up in a place in SA where herbal and the odd chem use was common and having a drink or 2 wasn't a problem means those particular things didn't stress me out. This is no longer true.

I don't mind a few drinks, hell I am happy enough to buy them if you want 'em but do not arrive reeking of alcohol. Smoking is completely fine as long as it isn't herbal.
If the lady I am seeing is a non-smoker I am more then happy to switch to my Twisp and make sure I shower and brush my teeth so she doesn't have to suffer through that smell. Well, the shower and such is done anyway before she arrives just as a courtesy, smoker or not.

Any use of hard stuff now results in a swift and sudden eviction notice being applied to the posterior of the lady. I won't tolerate any more of it after the last horror show.
You use, you lose... and I will review on it, I am done playing Mr. Nice Guy on this issue, that last episode completely stopped me punting for a bit as I was so freaked out...