Hi All

Due to a recent experience with punting (not with a provider) I have just not have the courage to go for it like I usually do.

How does one get out of this mindset? What do I do I'm also in Cape Town if that helps.

Kind Regards
ThelastRonin

Hey Samurai...no need to go all kamakazi now.

Go to one of your regular providers'...and let then pomp you broken.
Ride her until your katana is broken...

Then climb the mountain, enjoy the view...all will be well.

Repeat if necessary!

The trouble is I have been like a Ronin. I've visited and then gone to another place. So that's why this feels difficult XD

Abstain from all sex for a month.

You should be raring to go afterwards

On 2024-09-21 17:59:45 ThelastRonin said:
The trouble is I have been like a Ronin. I've visited and then gone to another place. So that's why this feels difficult XD

Every comment by you seems a bit like a riddle wanting to share whats going on but not wanting to put it into words..

My guesses are as follows...

1)The girlfriend/ wife/ partner found you or suspect you "wandering" around? And that is the recent "experience" related to punting you reffering too. That had put a damper on the punting game.

2)You developed a cruch/ situationship/relationship but yet had wandered elsewhere to try and offset that feelings but it aint working.

3)you could not get a hardon or had not managed to reach orgasm with your regular lady and end up booking another straight after that visit and now you think twice before making appointments as you kinda afraid it will happen again.. it happens to the best of punters ( lost of reasons.. it might blow over and never happen again or you mighy need to see your gp.)

I might be so far of the mark...but was fun trying to fugure oit what you where trying to say withiut actually telling what happend...;)

But for what its worth.. whatever it might be that has you in this funk mood.. go do something totally different.

Yes abstain for a month or two go do things with that money that you normally would not have done or have money to do.

The after all the fog had cleared go book a regular or an new lady and see if it helped to not be too focused on the "getting it" part.

I was scammed previously. not by a service provider but by someone else blackmailing me due to my punting history (fake cops)....

So I haven't got back on the horse since.

Sooo far off the mark..hehehe
Sorry not laughing at you but at thw wild guesses.. sorry this happened too you
..i can imagine it would make people a bit reluctant to punt.

.. these assholes just ruining the escort industry really..

And yet they got jack shit except punters own fear to use against them..


Fact is they get the numbers somewhere......

Either from SPs that are desparate for money and are believing these asshole will actually pay them for that numbers..

Or

They somehow a "punter" that got themselves added to these sexy whatsap groups giving them access to punters and ladies nrs that are in such groups.

Thats why people should have punters phones/numbers and only use it to make appointments and never answer calls from nrs they dont know.

On 2024-09-21 22:15:11 ThelastRonin said:
I was scammed previously. not by a service provider but by someone else blackmailing me due to my punting history (fake cops)....

So I haven't got back on the horse since.

The last Samurai can u eleborate on the blackmail part please. Did u actualy pay out money to these fake cops, or did u just get that same old anoying phone call, where they say u raped a girl and paid her with fake money?

On 2024-09-22 06:50:35 Pumpkineater said:
On 2024-09-21 22:15:11 ThelastRonin said: I was scammed previously. not by a service provider but by someone else blackmailing me due to my punting history (fake cops)....

So I haven't got back on the horse since.

The last Samurai can u eleborate on the blackmail part please. Did u actualy pay out money to these fake cops, or did u just get that same old anoying phone call, where they say u raped a girl and paid her with fake money?

Yep that's the one the actually acquired quite a bit of personal information on me.

I just haven't been able to make the leap back to punting since. :(

ThelastRonin

But how did they acquire quite a bit of personal information on you?..meaning your anonymity was breached?

And if it ain't connected to a service provider, why the hesitancy to re-engage?...even more so, why do u think they ain't gonna target u again...seeing you back on this forum, public platform for all to see and read and, with the same username.


Would be interesting to understand and maybe forewarn others who may fall into the same trap.

RB.