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Posted: 2016-04-17 17:33:50

Just wondering if am I the only one sailing in this boat.

I am eight months in marriage and I have not experienced so much less bedroom activity in my life. I only had sex 7 times in eight months.

Before marriage there was so much action and there was willing to even explore out of the norm.

Bedroom has become the worst place to share with my wife because there is just nothing happening.

Am I the only one in this kind of antisex marriage.



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Posted: 2016-04-17 17:40:15

You aren't the only one. One of the reasons for my divorce

Probably a reason for most of the punters on this site and even a few of the ladies
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Posted: 2016-04-17 17:55:28

Love. That normally happens once there's a ring both people move into there comfort zone. For instance things u used to to often now become less. I'm probably sure she's thinking the same thing. Why not take time and talk about.
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Posted: 2016-04-17 18:12:43

Yep, the cake that make women lose their sexual appetite.......wedding cake!!
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Posted: 2016-04-17 19:05:24

divorce her now. later will be much, much more expensive!!!
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Posted: 2016-04-17 19:31:46

Let's hope you didn't marry her only so you could bang her. Best thing to do is to communicate this frustration to her.

If there is still no change try and seduce her as you would a girl you really like. Like how you would approach your crush. Take her to dinner, sensual massage, buy her the favourite treats and snacks that got you into her heart. Dote over her.

If there is still no luck then give her less attention. Trust me she will notice that the guy who wanted to screw her daily suddenly doesn't want to. This will be a period of frustration so to plug the gap you will have to reintroduce miss palm and the magic 5 for a while. At least they will do you any day of the week.

Good luck! Just remember your situation is not unique. You can look forward to a lifetime of similar games. All worth it in the end.
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Posted: 2016-04-17 19:45:51

It sucks and it happens way more often than most would admit, get it sorted before having a kid cause that will be the end of your sex life for life... And also don't go fucking wg's to get back at her cause it will just make it worse

I found this book quite helpful after my first kid , good advice and common sense...
www.amazon.com/The-Married-Life-Primer-2011/dp/1460981731

Good site for people with this problem...

www.reddit.com/r/deadbedrooms
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Posted: 2016-04-17 20:24:18

Sorry to hear my friend.

Soooo glad I'm still single! And free...
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Posted: 2016-04-17 20:55:30

That's why there is a need for these wonderful women on ESA, to look after us married guys that don't get it at home
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Posted: 2016-04-17 21:03:39

Excessive punting might be the reason for that if you are an excessive punter.

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