Posted: 2016-04-19 09:06:30
@ Lithium. More often than not, it's all in your mind, not your dick. I bet you don't have that problem when having a wank. Chances are you're nervous, and that's when your soldier tends to salute before even standing to proper attention, especially with an unfamiliar partner. Hell, it's happened to me too that I'd cum before the rubber was even on.
Luckily there are remedies for this. If round 1 is a quick draw, then there's always round 2, unless of course you struggle to get it up a second time 'round.
Then there's foreplay. The more you do it, the longer you'll last. If it's quick, come get it over with sex, it will be just that. I find that true with the missus as well. If she wants it to be over with quickly, that's what usually happens, so I no longer bother initiating sex, because that is the likely outcome. If she's in one of her rare horny moods, then I can go on and on.
There's also a certain herbal remedy that usually works wonders, available either in a bankie or a matchbox, at a street corner near you. Yes, it has been known as an aphrodisiac since time immemorial.