So called up a regular of mine in Cape Town to make a booking. I could hear over the phone she was not her normal self. Arrived at her place. She there and then that she is not feeling well and in fact was close to crying.. I told her because I have being seeing her for about Two years no problem. I totally understand. Ended up staying for close to Three hours. Pass midnight. We chatted and she was feeling down because this industry is hard on her. Everything that goes with it. She has being doing this for Five years. What a great booking it turned out to be. No sex nothing just chatting and giving a few hugs. She even switched of her phone. Upon leaving I wanted to pay but she refused and did not take any money.. So yes its a tought life for these girls not all sunshine and Roses. I have big respect for her after this booking. Service was 5 out 5. Great Three hours with out even having sex. Respect.

Is this a review? Nevertheless thats a wonderful story. A good example of humanity. That people do care

Sometimes it's all we need... just someone who really listens and don't judge.
Yes life in this industry gets to a lot of us.
That's why more people join every day just as much as others leaving.
If we could just see the hope in making things work in the real world, and have a normal income and you can budget with the little money you have.... then it's all worth while.
We all need someone to talk to and don't always charge for that time, sometimes all we need is al little hope!

We all have our issues in life , whether sps or punters, but there are very few that even bother to take the time to think of the next person with genuine compassion. Life doesn't go to plan most of the time, but those small kindnesses, even if it's just listening, can make a huge difference! Bet she felt better after she spoke to you!

I am of the belief that this must be mentally one of the most draining occupations a person can do.

Us punters do not make it easy for the ladies with some of our demands and criteria when these demands are not met. We expect the ladies to always perform to our standards and if they don't we quick to name and shame.

Very seldom will we read a story as told above,but credit to myword for what he did, we should all learn from that.

Maybe think twice before we critique as to what these ladies has to deal with on a daily basis to put food on the table for their loved ones.

I left with a smile on my face. Felt like One of the best bookings just ended. No sex just talking for Three hours...Meg I agree totally, and this industry can get tuff.

This is nice.

There's a lot of clients that would take advantage of a ladies time by just sitting around.

Some really do overstay there welcome.

The thing is you went there and you where there with the intention to pay her for the time.

I think knowing when you needed is necessary..... and you where needed.

And then you get clients that downright overstay there welcome and that f#####up the ladies business for the whole day.

Only advise I have, remember the longer you stay the more stress you put on the ladies to work and make there target...please know when it's the right time to leave.

Or atleast pay for the time spend unless you have a agreement to visit and talk and chat (that's the ladies choice)

Some of us hasn't got the guts to say sorry you need to go we need to work.

Kry die timing reg... in this industry time is money.

And just sometimes like with you myword she needed a friend not a booking.

This goes to show that this industry isn't just about putting your penis in a hole. It can be about intimacy and connecting with another person.

Im not much of a talker...but love to listen. Listening and "trying" to understand what another person is saying does make a connection and can be very fulfilling (for me anyway). I never have any good advice to give...but advice isnt always required...luckily.