So I recently moved to Midrand from Sandton for a few days to try see how business would go for me and it turned out to be the best decision business wise I was working and paying my rent daily...

A day passed and the girls I was working with apparently reported to the owner that I'm isolating myself and not talking to them...and not cleaning which I was asked to and I did since I woke up later after them.I'm one person who likes her own space of course I would wake up and greet them, talk to them at times and even sit with them to watch tv, but also mostly sit in the bedroom and be busy on my phone which they viewed that as being unfriendly and hostile.

On Saturday evening I now get a text from this girl who's not even in the house she left to go home that morning, to say "Good evening nunu, we came to a conclusion that you going to have to find another place to work as we can't be working with you, we find you not to be a team player, and we feel you're not a people's person and we're happy souls with a positive vibe..." I was utterly shocked by this and asked myself how can someone ask you to leave because you not like them, meanwhile they also paying the same rent daily like you?Fortunately I didn't plan on staying long anyway so I left yesterday back to Sandton, we all probably have had bad experiences with other working girls but that for me was very shallow and uncaught for.I was even told on a text and not in person which I find very rude and disrespect...

Aai my doll im so sorry to hear about what happened to you thats not nice at all...strongs my angel ...

Kisses

@Kelly I'm sorry you feel that way, and I even apologised on text to tell you I get how you feel...

Now you don't come to someone's place and they tell you feel at home, you sit and chat to them the first day you get here, then the next day after being told you had to clean cause everyone is accepting clients, you then wake up at 11am after the place has been cleaned, you had to be asked to clean the room you have slept in till late, you wake up and eat and rinse your bowl and leave it on the sink when there were no dishes, why didn't you put it back where you found it?


The next thing the whole day you lock yourself in the room, I get that you like your own space, but I found it weird that you'd just greet and that's all, we didn't know you, and where you come from and whether you're locking yourself up cause you're doing drugs and you didn't want us to see...

And going outside in your gown to meet a guy was not in as we don't want people here suspecting anything as we have been here and never had problems...


The reason you were kicked out its because, the next day you did the same thing, woke up late, didn't clean, moved the heater to the room that you locked yourself in, you don't come to someone's space, not to talk to them and move their furniture around, what if the other girl had a client coming and the room is cold?

Clearly you're a drama queen this thread proves it and we're glad you're gone cause you were still gonna give us drama...

This should've been posted on the girls forum, not here...

P.s your hair is still allover the bathroom...

Sorry to read about that Kelly, but in all honesty, whenever girls are new in another's space and there is even a little tension for whatever reason, it is best to move on. Yes, we all have to make an effort to work around each other, especially when it is a live in situation, but these things are very sticky to deal with and often do not end well unless you hit it off with the other ladies, so always take these things on a trial basis. I don't think one ever knows what to expect, so you shouldn't take offence or see it as being mistreated, just move on and find a lady or ladies that you can work around. It takes a lot of trial to find ladies that you might click with but don't take it so personally.....it's extremely common and I know the feeling, but I'm sure no malice was intended.

This should have been posted on the girls forum though as this has nothing to do with clients or with yours or the other ladies business hun.

I totally agree! This post should have been on the ladies forum. Posting here just shows that you are out to make trouble, are looking for attention or just want to make the girls that helped you with a place to stay and work from, look bad! I would also feel that if someone is isolating herself, that something is wrong. As far as not cleaning after yourself and not taking other girls into consideration (i.e. The heater) that's just not ayoba!!!

I know a couple of girls who prefer their space and privacy ,best advice is to work from a lodge or hotel ,it costs more but you get what you want at the end of the day

On 2017-05-22 13:24:43 Climax said:
@Kelly I'm sorry you feel that way, and I even apologised on text to tell you I get how you feel...

Now you don't come to someone's place and they tell you feel at home, you sit and chat to them the first day you get here, then the next day after being told you had to clean cause everyone is accepting clients, you then wake up at 11am after the place has been cleaned, you had to be asked to clean the room you have slept in till late, you wake up and eat and rinse your bowl and leave it on the sink when there were no dishes, why didn't you put it back where you found it?


The next thing the whole day you lock yourself in the room, I get that you like your own space, but I found it weird that you'd just greet and that's all, we didn't know you, and where you come from and whether you're locking yourself up cause you're doing drugs and you didn't want us to see...

And going outside in your gown to meet a guy was not in as we don't want people here suspecting anything as we have been here and never had problems...


The reason you were kicked out its because, the next day you did the same thing, woke up late, didn't clean, moved the heater to the room that you locked yourself in, you don't come to someone's space, not to talk to them and move their furniture around, what if the other girl had a client coming and the room is cold?

Clearly you're a drama queen this thread proves it and we're glad you're gone cause you were still gonna give us drama...

This should've been posted on the girls forum, not here...

P.s your hair is still allover the bathroom...

this was uncalled for.... i love sitting alone in my room.. how can you say she uses drugs when sitting alone? think you bad mouthing her is very rude... but yes this shouldnt be on this forum

Actually...it is interesting to read posts like this. Think allot of people assume everything just goes lekker when they arrive for a booking (at a house where more than one lady live and work together). Gives us (the punters) a bit of perspective.....we are all just normal people with normal everyday hiccups.

Eish! Glad to be a man. We would have simply told the guy, "hi wat de fok maak jy - kry jou gat in rat" . sorted. If not, a PK would have done and then we would have a beer....

I said we thought @Lizzy which is just an assumption...

And this wasn't about her sitting alone, the fact that she didn't clean and expected us to do it for her, after the owner of the place spoke to her about that, and moving the heater that we keep for clients while there's another girl in the apartment...

Sorry the "drug statement" came out wrong and shouldn't have been mentioned...