Miss Vanillas post got me thinking, if a girl manages to find work through the forum, will her 'sexual duties' still be applicable, be expected in return or will the person providing her with the opportunity take her seriously as an intellectual person with more to offer and afford her the chance to prove her worth outside of the sex industry without expecting 'extras'!

I've always wondered about this, so this is no attack on anyone, just came to mind recently when she posted it and using her situation as an example and nothing more! Would this forum be a good place to do this in light of exposure and the fact that one would not have to go through explaining the gap in their resume/CV?

Great question Miss V.

As a frequent reader yet infrequent commentor on this forum, I've often been amazed at the quality of responses of certain ladies (yourself included) and thought how they could add value they could add in a corporate role.

At the same time I'm aware that knowing their history might compromise my integrity as a boss in the other world.

I would hate to offer someone a job and even sub-consciously be considering the possibility of workplace shenanigans.

Miss V

This is a valid question you have and I think a lot of ladies are struggling with that also. I think it all depends on the gentlemen in question.

I would like to think most would be professional enough to allow her the freedom to deliver in her new position without expecting any favours from her. Unforetunately the opposite will also be true, which is really sad.

I don't think someone's past should ever be held against them for any favors.

This could be a good an a bad disission on both ends
wgs senting CVS out to clients who may have potential job opportunities not knowing there true intentions. your cv has your full name and surname I'd num and private cell number and private home address
This could be used to extort money out of u blackmail u for free sex or even stalk you.
you and the wg agrees on terms and services in exchange for getting her the job she gets it and refuses to do her part you can't then decide to un give her the job become she can then take u to the CCMA and charge u with misconduct or sexual harresment

wg have been so long out of the workplace would one adept fast enough into one after so many years
would you be biased towards them

sorrry for being mis negative but all pros and cons have to be considered

I've been in and around this business forever. Very few clients who are able to will help a lady get out of this game and not expect sexual favours
Been there, done that. One didn't pay me what he promised. Another who was based overseas expected me to be at his hotel penthouse whenever I wasn't at work. At his beck and call 24/7. Another fired me cos I was moonlighting in this industry at night. (Bear in mind I had to get through a month before payday and I started at the bottom in his business, so minimum wage). One did not pay me at all cos I refused to be called to his office for blowjobs. Another made life very difficult for me when I got a bf. All went well when I was single.
So pardon my scepticism.

The only thing to do here is keep your job hunting separate from this life as the two should not collide.

We have sex inside a relationship it does not impact on anybody's jobs, we have sex outside a relationship and do it for free, it would not impact on our normal jobs and no-one really cares how you getting sex BUT get paid for it and there is a huge hoohah about it...Who gives a f&%k how we get sex, it's no one's business so best keep all sexual activities to yourself and don't divulge.
When I get a job, I am going to pretend I am a frigid bitch who has got sexual issues, should the occasion call for it in the workplace.

I concur with the ladies above, not a good idea to get a job through a client. No matter how good his intentions and how nice he is, chances are extremely high that he will directly or indirectly pressure her into servicing him and may use her past as a tool of manipulation and control.

To explain the gap in formal employment on your cv (the years that you were working in this industry), you can tell your prospective employer that you were in a relationship for those years with a guy who refused to let you work at all. It is very believable as there are many guys who do not let the girlfriend/wife work and then years down the line when they divorce or breakup, she is left with little to no work experience at all....

@Miss V, that's why I posted on the other thread that there must be mutual discretion as the lady's past in this industry and on the lady's part discretion as to who told her about the post or how she knows the boss.

Also, for punters with own businesses, who may have an opening that could be filled by an ex WG, absolute respect must apply and no "favours" should be sought in return from the lady. Neither ever bring up a lady's past in this biz.

A few years ago a friend who is a partner in a PicknPay supermarket and he was looking for a bookkeeper. A regular lady I knew in the biz working in Wilgers area had some experience and I asked if she was interested and she was. She never told my friend how she knows me and I never expected any favours from her. She had a slightly rocky start the first few weeks having to learn QuickBooks but few years later she is still employed at the same PicknPay and happy. I say hi to her now and again but like normal civilians.

I believe that there are still people out there with good attentions... if I had to look back at my own life when I started in this industry. The client who paid for my boobs, tummytuck and 2 nights in private hospital never had an agenda... He is married and happy and wanted to help me without taking advantage of the situation...He still paying me for my services. I know it's different from Vanilla's situation but I do believe that there are still good people out there with good attentions.

I agree with Miss V and the ladies.

It is now a work "hard" situation and not to work "smart".

For 4 years I worked hard to get where I am today, and I am in contract with 2 companies because I am one of the best in my profession.

I now work "smart" to keep my contracts with the companies, which is the reason why I am leaving this industry.

Hopefully I will get another contract soon to train in Zanzibar.

Julia