Ons kan net wonder wie die Charmaine en Cobus is.

Lesson to be learnt do not leave your wife for a WG.

Meg spook by my. I have not yet visited her, but I think she is amazing. Surely she won't do this to me...

Lol you funny Martini Henry!
Thank you for the compliment.

But no man on this earth should leave there partners for someone else.
The damage that it causes in a relationship is unbearable and heartbreaking to your partner.
Rather get divorced before the time or sort you head out.
We here for fun... giving something that the gentleman don't get at home.
Not all are looking for a relationship and not all in a relationship is looking.
Just enjoy it for what it is... fun times !

Easier said than done Meg!

Once feelings get involved between a WG/MG and punter, things start to get very complicated even though it seems perfectly normal.

Twice burned......never ever ends well for either side

On 2017-08-22 09:58:33 Martini Henry said:
www.huisgenoot.com/Ons-mense/gautenger-in-sak-en-as-ek-was-verlief-op-n-sekswerker-toe-verloor-hy-haar-en-sy-vrou-20170818

Cobus is iewers hier op ESA. There are many Charmaines in this biz but the article says she is in Cape Town.

This article must also be placed on the trying to quit punting thread.

Any ways, "Cobus", if you are reading this, you are more than welcome to join the prestigious SSS. Ons het 'n hoekkie vir eensames onder pieterd se lapa.

A sad story indeed.

My own opinion is that one should only punt when you are single, divorced etc, because if the other party finds out ( which they eventually will ) all hell breaks loose and you end up with more regrets than anything else.

As for finding love in this industry, it's possible, but only when both parties are single, and give up punting/wg activities (and any associations made in the industry) at the same time and move on with life together.

Possible ? Yes
Hopeless romantic ? Probably

You can't generalize.
Not all ladies or gentleman are in the same position as the above article.
I know a few ladies that's involved with punters and got married to them.
They still together till today!
But no one listens when feelings starts to build up between WG and client.
For him it's a fantasy and for the WG it's someone who cares and see through the masquerade.
Not everyone's situation is the same.
I think this man was stupid in trying to SAVE a WG that's hooked on shit!
Why would she give up a steady income for a older man that's married and can't provide her with what she needs?
Think his expectations was a bit to high?
Did he discuss it with her or made a choice for both of them?
In my opinion, make sure the feelings are mutual before taking drastic steps.
Not all girls in this industry needs a hero, she might just look hopeless... and some just needs to survive!
Seems like is she just sticks around for her next fix!
PS: what a way to f##### your life and those around you!

Well said Meg!