Why do you cheat if you do if you have why did you do it?

As a man is there a point where you completely stop having affairs or punts etc ?

What drives us to want all these sexual encounters and one partner somehow is not sufficient....

It depends on the dynamics of the relationship, I'm married and for many years I was a one woman man. But things happen along the way as the relationship evolves and the individual grow. Sometimes you may grow closer together in which case there's nothing that can come between you and sometimes you grow apart and the grass starts to look greener on the other side. It all depends on individual circumstances

Married live gets boring and loose its spice as far as sex goes..how many wife give a BJ after 10 y of marriage. Do all the styles when you were still new weds. Don't think so. That's way punters start playing around.

On 2017-09-24 06:18:04 iknow said:
Married live gets boring and loose its spice as far as sex goes..how many wife give a BJ after 10 y of marriage. Do all the styles when you were still new weds. Don't think so. That's way punters start playing around.

I have lady friends and those who complain about the sexual side of things have said they lost interest in the bad sex. If their men were a little better at bit they'll make the effort. Of punters who complain about sex at home, for a significant number, if I was his wife I'd resort to self-service. The lack of intimacy is just a symptom of whatever is going on, its seldom the all encompassing reason. Dr Phil once said (and I:m paraphrasing), Inna relationship where everything else is going well except the sex, then the lack of sex is a small thing. But if there are other issues then the lack of sex is a major issue.

I know men cheat but so does some woman.

Every thought of doing something to beta yourself?
Prep, shave, brush your teeth, put on some nice perfume, dress up, clean your nails, give your lady the attention she needs.

This is what we( the ladies)do to tri and keep their attention.

Men cheat because they think they'll never get caught.
Everyone that cheat WILL get caught out in the long run!
It's a fact!

Some ladies won't ever know there partners are cheating on them..,
But others choose to turn their backs because of security reasons.

I can't say it's wrong because I'm the one you cheating your partner with.... but then again... you not only doing it with me but so many other ladies.

Woman are funny creatures, we look for details in everything men do.
Only advice I have, if you in a routine with your partner for years, don't change 1 little thing...or tri a change it unless it's for the beta.
If one thing is off all red flags goes up and we start to look for missing pieces.


I just think men overall aren't happy with one lady.
Then again this is just my opinion.
Just my 2c worth

Everyones reason for cheating is not generic , it is not as simple as assuming all cheat for the same reason.

So asking a generic question like why do men cheat will obviously create a generic assumption.

I believe there are numerous factors that play a reason to either party cheating at the end of the day those involved need to find and fix the issue or cut away as the problem exists because of shortcomings within each couples relationship and the quest for happiness in us as humans.

This could be as simple as need for adventure to as complex as losing a sense of connection with any or both partners , a lack of fullfilment etc the pshycological motivation to the actual deed has been debated for ever dont think anyone could understand it fully, I doubt anyone understands their own reasons fully.

On 2017-09-24 00:12:10 AnacondaRob said:


As a man is there a point where you completely stop having affairs or punts etc ?

When the small head losses its function, there won't be a need to cheat anymore.Thats the only reason I punt.

On 2017-09-24 00:12:10 AnacondaRob said:
Why do you cheat if you do if you have why did you do it?

As a man is there a point where you completely stop having affairs or punts etc ?

What drives us to want all these sexual encounters and one partner somehow is not sufficient....

This has a very long answer which I'm not going to do.

The 2nd point first is when you get married. (Yes I really believed infidelityin marriage is fundamentally in inexcusably wrong as well as immoral and looked down on those that did it)

3rd point. Really quite simple. One partner is enough but if that partner isn't giving you any for months or years then you don't really have a choice but to get it elsewhere. Men NEED physical sexual gratification. Sexual frustration is a real thing.

1st point. The need for sexual relief and intimacy. To feel desired and wanted as a "married" person. I put it like that becuase I do not believe you're still really married if your partner can't kiss and sleep with you. After all, these wgs can make an effort with random people like us just for money.

That brings up the next point of investing time and money into a partner with no return effort or appreciation. There's comes a point where you realize that all your efforts will never be good enough. It's a one way street of you giving and never receiving. You could put some of this effort/investment elsewhere and be guaranteed a return, hence punting.

Need4Passion has just nicely expanded what I just said. Before one gets married, they get to explore all there is to explore wrt sex (the bait). You get it served on a silver platter. Once that signature is on that marriage certificate, all the excuses start about schedules and all as if I will finish her Pussy (that's right I said it, her pussy). That's usually what gives birth to punting/cheating. However I prefer punting as I don't have to worry about the lady talking about feelings after the first fuck. Hence I said that when the penis stops working for whatever reason that will be, so will the punting/cheating.

@roshta, the bait...

I love it. Last time my wife actually put on lingerie for me was on our honeymoon. That was 1 night of the 2 weeks abroad.

Before that, it was every weekend, every occasion including her birthday, times in the week when she was "feeling sexy". I pretty much sae her in lingerie more thsn normal clothes.

Marriage came and we'd only have sex when she was ovulating to try for a baby.