My bestie and i were chatting and having a drink with a guy we both had a crush on. We asked what the other guys in the group thought of us and he said, 'so and so is the girl every guy wants to take home to mom and kitty is the wild one every guy wants to fuck'.

This is true. I recently got kicked out of a class because the teachers wanted to have sex with me or get nudes (i declined on both).

My sister's husband told me once in a car trip that i was 'the siser he should be fucking'.

My sisters ex fiance also said 'i would love to make love to you'.

Numerous requests on facebook from friends boyfriends or single guys...

So great... i went from a frigid prude catholic schoolgirl to a sex kitten. Thats great and all... but...

Clearly not the perfect woman. How does one become that girl? The one that has men turning their heads and falling over themselves? A woman that makes them feel good about themselves?

What is the perfect woman to you?

On 2017-11-01 13:53:23 Kitty said:
My bestie and i were chatting and having a drink with a guy we both had a crush on. We asked what the other guys in the group thought of us and he said, 'so and so is the girl every guy wants to take home to mom and kitty is the wild one every guy wants to fuck'.

This is true. I recently got kicked out of a class because the teachers wanted to have sex with me or get nudes (i declined on both).

My sister's husband told me once in a car trip that i was 'the siser he should be fucking'.

My sisters ex fiance also said 'i would love to make love to you'.

Numerous requests on facebook from friends boyfriends or single guys...

So great... i went from a frigid prude catholic schoolgirl to a sex kitten. Thats great and all... but...

Clearly not the perfect woman. How does one become that girl? The one that has men turning their heads and falling over themselves? A woman that makes them feel good about themselves?

What is the perfect woman to you?

In all honesty, you can dress appropriately, loooong dresses, dress like a wife, but us men we can still see that thing about you even if we don't know you. It is as if we have this thing that can sense whether or not this woman is wife material or just a side dish.

Let's turn it around.
What is the perfect guy for you? Who'll make you want to take home to the family?

The same criteria you'll use for the perfect guy is the same criteria we'll use for the perfect girl.

And remember like Cinderella's glass slipper. The perfect match is not universal, it's individual.

On 2017-11-01 14:40:32 mike02 said:
On 2017-11-01 13:53:23 Kitty said: My bestie and i were chatting and having a drink with a guy we both had a crush on. We asked what the other guys in the group thought of us and he said, 'so and so is the girl every guy wants to take home to mom and kitty is the wild one every guy wants to fuck'.

This is true. I recently got kicked out of a class because the teachers wanted to have sex with me or get nudes (i declined on both).

My sister's husband told me once in a car trip that i was 'the siser he should be fucking'.

My sisters ex fiance also said 'i would love to make love to you'.

Numerous requests on facebook from friends boyfriends or single guys...

So great... i went from a frigid prude catholic schoolgirl to a sex kitten. Thats great and all... but...

Clearly not the perfect woman. How does one become that girl? The one that has men turning their heads and falling over themselves? A woman that makes them feel good about themselves?

What is the perfect woman to you?






In all honesty, you can dress appropriately, loooong dresses, dress like a wife, but us men we can still see that thing about you even if we don't know you. It is as if we have this thing that can sense whether or not this woman is wife material or just a side dish.

Then i may have to accept that i am the extra sweet side dish :p

No one, man or woman, is perfect Kitty. But two special imperfect people may just result in perfection...

On 2017-11-01 14:56:31 MrShyGuyV2 said:
No one, man or woman, is perfect Kitty. But two special imperfect people may just result in perfection...

So true!

When a perfect man meets a perfect woman, that is when the fairytale starts.

When an imperfect man meets an imperfect woman, that is when the serious work starts to make the relationship a success!

I love the Afrikaans saying "Vir elke pot is daar n deksel...", because it is true.

There is no such thing as a perfect woman or man though. Every person has flaws, it is what makes each of us human and unique.

My unsolicited advice:

1.Always surround yourself with friends & family who show you respect in word and deed. If they disrespect you in any way, cut ties with them, no matter how difficult and painful it is to do so.

2.Do not let other people label you, no matter who they are and never label yourself, because if you repeat something often enough, you eventually adopt that label without realizing it and it becomes who you are. You are a beautiful woman who are so much more than a sex pot or side dish - realize this, believe in yourself (the real you) and live your life accordingly.

3.Join a sports club or do a hobby that brings you in contact with new people outside your circle of friends and one day when you are not even looking for it, you will find your "deksel".

Real women are not perfect and perfect woman are not real.

We all have flaws it's loving ourselves with our flaws that we become confident in who we are.

That's just my opinion.

A woman who is independant, who doesn't need me but wants me.
A woman who can laugh at herself, as well as ALL my stupid jokes.
A woman who is comfortable with her body - she may not be 'model' material but couldn't really give a shit - she is REAL!.
A woman, of whom I could not imagine anyone else being the mother of my children.
but most importantly, a woman who earns more than me!!!!!

I guess Im the side dish lol!!!
Ek kry nie n regte deksel nie of Dalk is Myne lankal gebreek!!!
Eks n Sterk pot sonder n deksel lol