A few questions, that I really need answers to. From a punters point of view. Ladies are also more than welcome to voice their opinions.

Firstly, the availability function.... if I don't answer my phone, what does that tell you?. I might be busy with a client, or as life happens, I could be busy sorting out a crises. Why do some punters, deem necessary to send malicious messages, once they can't get hold of you? Or phone 10 times, and still don't seem to be able to understand, that if I do not answer my phone, that I may be busy!


There is a reason why we have our available times on our profiles. I do agree that there are girls that are available 24/7. But why call me at 2 am, 10 times after each other, and then send me a message saying " that maybe I'm too old, ugly or whatever, that's why I don't want to see you"!. How the hell should I know what you look like or what age you are, just through a phone call???? The reason for me not answering a call at 2 am, is plain & simple! I AM SLEEPING.

Secondly, why do most punters ask if I work alone? That phrase alone, send shivers down my spine. With what is happening around us, on a daily basis most of us working girls prefer to work with a friend or in a venue, as it provides some kind of security to us. What is your intention, should I tell you that I do work alone?


Thirdly, if a punter calls and asks me in which area I am....On my profile I clearly state that I am based in the Zwartkop Golf Course Area/Centurion. Is there a Zwartkop Golf Course Area in every province of this land? Please clarify this for me. As I have had punters call me from Jhb and Durban, asking me in witch area I am! Some punters will call from Pretoria North, and still thinks I am only two streets away from them. Do some punters not read our profiles?

Another question....is it difficult for a punter to ask a lady to dress a certain way? Specifically, dressing up like on my profile? I am always dressed to kill, make-up always impeccable and always ready to satisfy a clients every need. Why not ask me over the phone, if you want me to dress a certain way? I am willing to dress up for you.... But I am not dressed in my photo-shoot clothes 24 hours a day.

I am very special! So no, I do not have any specials. I give my utmost best to each and every client, and believe that I am worth each and every penny you spend on me!

And please....if you make an appointment, PLEASE HONOR IT!. Please be on time...not 20 min late or never pitching up at all. If something does happen, that you can't make our appointment, PLEASE call and cancel. If you are 20 minutes late and still insist on an hour, after I already have another client, do you think it is fair towards the other client? If you can call for an appointment, you can call and let me know that you're running late, so I can arrange with the other client, to come in a bit later. That way everyone is happy!

I am always willing to go the extra mile for all my clients, as all my regulars know. RESPECT should come from both sides. Why do some punters take us "working girls" for granted? Why should we always show respect towards punters, when it is not shown back to us?

Do some punters think that we as working girls, do not have an IQ, or an education.....or is it because we are working girls, that we don't deserve respect.

After all, we are human too!

1. Not answering the phone - totally acceptable from a NORMAL punters point of view, as most of us are not morons. EXCEPTION: When we've made a booking and arrive in the area and call... but no answer. The dude that calls you 10 times at 2am is obviously a dickhead. ;)

2. I agree, security first. What probably runs through a punters mind is the fear that you're working from a house with two male Nigerian 'housemates', or that the house is so busy that they will be seen entering or leaving by more than just you. We might want to revisit the house and see your 'friend' next time, but it's kind of awkward if we've already visited you. Nobody expects you to be completely alone... although I have visited many girls who are... and I have to say it's been a 'different' kind of punt... more relaxed. But then, I'm not a serial killer - just horny.

3. Yeah, that's just stupid.

4. Any special outfit requests should be made before we arrive. Agreed.

5. Some punter might. But others (like me) have the utmost respect for what you do and who you are as people. You have to filter out the former.

Kisses, stay beautiful. xxx

Eish think calls at 2 am are from the bottom of the bottle any way... but hell ja respect all around please boys!

Joy is not happy!! Eish my punting budget is all up. Otherwise i would make a booking right now and pitch up with a bottle of red and nice fresh bunch of flowers just to cheer you up. Xxx

Thank you for creating this post Joy.
I also have the exact same questions.
I am starting to think that most men cannot read.

On 2017-11-20 12:23:00 Sage said:
Thank you for creating this post Joy.
I also have the exact same questions.
I am starting to think that most men cannot read.

That puts me in the top 5% then? ;) Love ya Sage.

Joy, you have addressed all my issues in a nut shell.

Well said and wish that the punters out there will read and learn.


They take no interest in what is written on your profile.

Anyway thank you.

Kisses and hugs

@AllenBBB the only thing sexier than inteligence is a dripping cock.
Only 5% of men have both at any given time.

Great post Miss Joy. A timely reminder for some although you may be preaching to the converted and your target audience could be part of the non-ESA punting public.

@AllenTreeby - great response. You took the words right out of my mouth especially in terms of ladies not answering their phones after dates and times have been confirmed. It is surprising how many of the higher rated ladies also are guilty of this. Is it because we are punters that we don't deserve the respect.

@Sage

*winks.

Why do guys assume that we all work for Nigerians?? Not as many of us work for niggies as punters assume...

@Joy Well said on all points ...

When guys ask me if I'm alone I ask them straight out what their real intentions are! With so many is us going missing it is a very real concern. We are already statistics and at great risk just by being in this biz.

I think most punters have this stereotype in their heads, thanks to movies that portray us all as gutter trash junkies - Which WE mostly are NOT! We are businesswomen trying to survive in a wrecked economy! Of course the guys with the above perspective don't think of us as respect worthy...of course we are all awake at 2am even though your profile states your working hours, of course we don't have actual lives...

Its very frustrating.