On 2024-04-21 00:51:10 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
On 2024-04-20 23:05:12 NorwegianWooD said: I have been seeing WGs since 2013.
That's nice for you man
On 2024-04-21 05:15:50 Sandon said:
On 2024-04-21 00:51:10 Sir Shadow Hefner said: On 2024-04-20 23:05:12 NorwegianWooD said: I have been seeing WGs since 2013.
That's nice for you man
Siyambongela
On 2024-04-20 05:45:11 RenePhillips said:
On 2024-02-24 14:22:58 Parraman2 said: ROAR can mean anything, for some it means no African clients for others it means no fat guy or no skinny guy or someone that drives a Kia the list is very long and you will never know what it means to her if you do not contact her.
Why must we put lipstick on a pig?
It seems there is a constant desire to justify what it could mean and ignoring what it more often means...
I have never been asked:
1. Are you fat?
2. Are you skinny?
3. Are you rich?
4. Are you poor?
5. Are you educated?
6. Are you handicapped?
7. Have you had breakfast this morning?
8. What religion are you?
9. Are you on chronic medicine?
10. Did you floss today.
ROAR could mean a host of things under the sun. The reality is it doesn't. And that's okay. It really is.
WGs rules. Her body. Her preference. Her right.
The ones who have the policy seldom engage in these threads. Also they're right too. Without their voice, we are just speculating.
Sadly No Punters Ombudsman exists.
We live in an inherently discriminatory world. This is just a microcosm of it. If it's any consolation, these ladies would probably not want to f#@k you in the real world too.
And they're reverse BEE advocates would probably question your worth in real life.
Welcome to the real world... in all its fakeness.
On 2024-02-23 08:44:37 BendOver said:
SolCandy posted some great profiles and he is correct in saying that these girls don't even greet but instead ask What is your race even though your interaction is respectful as Ericsie mentions.
No matter how you approach the Service Provider they start off the interaction with a rude response and without any tact or respect. Attitude is not what you say but how you say it.
I respect their ROAR policies and yes it is their body and their rules but approach it in a decent and respectful manner.
I also from my own experience find that when a white Punter interacts with them the rates vary to that of an Indian Punter, a white friend of mine and myself both interacted with the same Service Provider and we both were quoted different rates, being an Indian I was quoted a higher rate.
ROAR might mean Rates Only About Race
On 2024-05-03 07:43:34 OpenVisitor said:
My issue ais a sad one and we as black men must just except it.
White men can majorly of the time use the services of any woman but black men have to be respectful and tip toe around the question of seeing us.
We come here for the freedom of seeing someone without any baggage of us being too ugly, too fat, too thin, etc. all we have to do is shower, put on cologne and make a call and we get laid. But then we get here and are told oh yeah you're black. So a the forum post you see is out of frustration. Obviously nothing is going to change. We're just tired and we are just venting. It just makes us sad that we have to be nice but white men dont even have to think of what to say, if they are nice great but if they are not and the lady likes that or doesnt care they still win yet we are already labelled from the get go simply cuz i call myself ThaboBigDick then its an immediate no. I have to count my words, hope the lady will see me and if she does i hope she is reasonable in here pricing and her ability to cater to me.
Again just venting here.
Once in a while you will see a post about race cuz of the frustration gets too much.
Speaking for myself, I love all women, I do understand they all cant love me. I also understand that if you are nice you will get the best service and also if you are a gold member cuz gold members rate and comment but as soon as i see a sexy white lady with good reviews i have to now deal with the stress of being disappointed when she says no, not you because of the colour of that thing you call skin and to be honest i am a very generous lover so i just think ok your loss but it still stings to go through the stress, the hope and then disappointment like cho! Ok sad face. Its fine lol.
Anyway just remember that its not nice for black men as a whole especially when you're at a buffet and the chef says you can have beef only but no chicken.
I guess thats the problem, we as black men think its a buffet but its only a buffet for white men and black men must still ask if we can have chicken too and if not we must just accept and move on. I hope one day it will change but i hope by then those wg wont be pushing me in a wheelchair coz i'll be too old to get it up lol lol lol
On 2024-05-03 07:43:34 OpenVisitor said:
My issue ais a sad one and we as black men must just except it.
White men can majorly of the time use the services of any woman but black men have to be respectful and tip toe around the question of seeing us.
We come here for the freedom of seeing someone without any baggage of us being too ugly, too fat, too thin, etc. all we have to do is shower, put on cologne and make a call and we get laid. But then we get here and are told oh yeah you're black. So a the forum post you see is out of frustration. Obviously nothing is going to change. We're just tired and we are just venting. It just makes us sad that we have to be nice but white men dont even have to think of what to say, if they are nice great but if they are not and the lady likes that or doesnt care they still win yet we are already labelled from the get go simply cuz i call myself ThaboBigDick then its an immediate no. I have to count my words, hope the lady will see me and if she does i hope she is reasonable in here pricing and her ability to cater to me.
Again just venting here.
Once in a while you will see a post about race cuz of the frustration gets too much.
Speaking for myself, I love all women, I do understand they all cant love me. I also understand that if you are nice you will get the best service and also if you are a gold member cuz gold members rate and comment but as soon as i see a sexy white lady with good reviews i have to now deal with the stress of being disappointed when she says no, not you because of the colour of that thing you call skin and to be honest i am a very generous lover so i just think ok your loss but it still stings to go through the stress, the hope and then disappointment like cho! Ok sad face. Its fine lol.
Anyway just remember that its not nice for black men as a whole especially when you're at a buffet and the chef says you can have beef only but no chicken.
I guess thats the problem, we as black men think its a buffet but its only a buffet for white men and black men must still ask if we can have chicken too and if not we must just accept and move on. I hope one day it will change but i hope by then those wg wont be pushing me in a wheelchair coz i'll be too old to get it up lol lol lol
On 2024-05-03 08:58:52 styffrichard said:
On 2024-05-03 07:43:34 OpenVisitor said: My issue ais a sad one and we as black men must just except it.
White men can majorly of the time use the services of any woman but black men have to be respectful and tip toe around the question of seeing us.
We come here for the freedom of seeing someone without any baggage of us being too ugly, too fat, too thin, etc. all we have to do is shower, put on cologne and make a call and we get laid. But then we get here and are told oh yeah you're black. So a the forum post you see is out of frustration. Obviously nothing is going to change. We're just tired and we are just venting. It just makes us sad that we have to be nice but white men dont even have to think of what to say, if they are nice great but if they are not and the lady likes that or doesnt care they still win yet we are already labelled from the get go simply cuz i call myself ThaboBigDick then its an immediate no. I have to count my words, hope the lady will see me and if she does i hope she is reasonable in here pricing and her ability to cater to me.
Again just venting here.
Once in a while you will see a post about race cuz of the frustration gets too much.
Speaking for myself, I love all women, I do understand they all cant love me. I also understand that if you are nice you will get the best service and also if you are a gold member cuz gold members rate and comment but as soon as i see a sexy white lady with good reviews i have to now deal with the stress of being disappointed when she says no, not you .....
You are of course 100% correct.....but then again what you are describing is no different to how many younger white men feel when wanting to apply for work with any corporate in SA