We cannot judge all based on the actions of others, I agree with you there...but how can one tell the difference when meeting a stranger for the first time for sex in a private space? I take that chance based on a few things which I will not even list! It must work because my experiencea with black clients have all been great. I've had no issues. In fact, next to muslims, they are the second best client base i have in terms of manners, cleanliness, intelligence and honesty. I feel at ease with all of my black regulars...but i won't deny my stomach turns and I'm afraid when seeing a new black client. I recognize that even as a woman that sees all races, those prejudices are there...are they fair? No and I feel bad when I've gotten to know that particular client. Are my fears justified? Definately! I fear each new client, but more so black clients...I cannot help it! I am an easy target and black on white violence is vicious if you have seen what happens in most of those attacks! How can I be 100% sure? It'll never be different until something changes in this country when it comes to crime and especially violence towards women of all races!

On 2018-07-21 11:17:45 Mike X said:
Be sure to differentiate between a racist and racial preference.

Everyone has the right to racial preference.

Spot on...Freedom of association!

Racial preference is not the same as racial discrimination.

Everyone has the right to choose their race of choice and they don't owe anyone an explanation for their choice.

Let them be.

Apologies chancetaker if I missed a lot of the discussion. There was just too much to read and I'm not much of a reader.

This has gone too far now.

On 2018-07-21 11:28:22 Sandon said:
This has gone too far now.

How so? We are having a discussion...??? It seems quite civil as far as I can see.

Fire.... In Montana hot as hell

Conversation was definitely quite civil and quite intelligent responses I might add

On 2018-07-21 11:50:48 chancetaker said:
Conversation was definitely quite civil and quite intelligent responses I might add

And I never threw my toys out the cot...yay me, lol.

Look we'll never completely agree. And that's fine, that was never my intention. But it's healthy to float and debate ideas when its in a civilised manner. And yes no toys left their cots in this conversation lol.