On 2016-01-08 08:27:40 Michelle said:
How about focusing on living positively and just move on from things you do not like unless they are relevant things that can impact on your future. Choose your arguments to save your energy for the hard things in life.
Perhaps take some of your own advice? I know she's your daughter and all but, as I've advised before, your constant leaping to her defense undermines her almost as much as some of the other comments here. You keep feeding the trolls here and neither you nor Savanna seem to be able to read between the lines and you both just keep making a bad thread worse.
On 2016-01-08 02:36:29 Michelle said:
Savanna was just reminding QCumber of his gift and he has never, not even subtly, refused acceptance of the gift.
First, although I don't know him that well I think I can state with 100% confidence that Qcumber hadn't forgotten. So Sav "just reminding" him is both condescending to him and comes across as more of her past pattern of attention-seeking.
Second, and this may just be my reading of things based on my own (possibly highly deficient) EQ is that Qcumber couldn't have been more obvious about his lack of interest. He's a gentleman and wouldn't want to come right out and say it but you and your daughter are living in a dream world of unicorns and rainbows if you think he's interested. Mind you he's just the kind of guy that may show up just to spare her feelings but if you spend 5 minutes doing a search on his reviews instead of being overly defensive, you will get a pretty clear picture of what he likes. While I am sure Sav has plenty of fans I would guess, and it IS just a guess, that Qcumber isn't one of them.
PLEASE can you both just move on and let this thread die already?