ROAR policy is a subject that will as long as the human race been and will be have no end. My take on the whole ROAR is if a WG no matter her race, does not want to see me for any reason whatsoever (and yes there is white WG'S that do not want to see me) I will not book her, I would also not invent a new name just to book her, think she would recognize me when she open her door.

Authority has spoken who am i to argue with you. Thankyou for addressing me as sir, now can i get that reliable punters badge?

"Several advertisers have complained noting that Naledi does not speak for them, so thus my comment"

This is cute considering I didn't mention any names... Whatever I wrote here is based on interacting with other wgs, from different cities who've also worked with other different girls from different places
Working girls move around a lot.
Working girls talk a lot...

I don't recall saying I'm speaking for anyone. I don't have time nor the energy because we, working girls pay the same amount of money to advertise here and the forum is open for all to do their own leg work.

Punters say girls who have the word curvaceous on the profile are obese. Do those girls call ESA to whine about punters speaking for them???

Recently a punter posted a thread about WGs rates, did any wgs from the mentioned areas call "noting that the OP of that thread does not speak for them"??

We previously spoke of certain trends in the industry and the words "smokers welcomed" can into the mix. Some people said it meant cigarettes others, myself included said its a reference to drugs.

WG ages: punters say add 10 years to whoever advertises 35 & you have the accurate age etc


The list goes on and on.

General assumptions etc. The handful of wgs who are brave enough to come on this forum, set the record straight, give example of stories we've heard and our own personal experiences. I thought that what this section "General Discussions" is all about. We don't do this because we are the self appointed PR agents of Ho-Central, we just shed a little light on the little we know from being in this industry for X number of months/ years.

Those WGs who felt the need to call ESA, also have a right to come out here and say Naledi, I have roar on my profile and what you're saying is absolute nonsense, but the chose not to, their right too but I refuse to be crucified via private complaints because someone got touched on their studios, when all I was doing is expressing myself, my thoughts and opinion...

Amen sister.

My "I am going to get lynched" opinion.

IN FIRST INSTANCE-
THE "PERSONAL" CHOICE CONCEPT:

I stand firm in NO judgement of the choices of others.
But I do not paint up and apply make up to a blatant truth to make it more palatable.
I am just crystal clear on the notion that lovemaking, sex, love partnership and all those most private engagements are intrinsically intimate and based on personal choice....
But I just MUST NOT FORGET that I have made and converted such delicate intimate private and personal affair IN A VERY PUBLIC SALE with a price tag attach to it and pair with an open to public advertisement where the "personal choice concept" no longer applies.
I am not advertising here on ESCORTS South Africa to find a soul mate, a husband, a lover or a boyfriend or even a friend where which the PERSONAL choice and tendencies should never fail to apply.
Those are real personal affairs that requires exercising personal choices.

I am selling sex....

I mustn't forget that...
Whether I like it or not...there is NOTHING PERSONAL to it.


IN SECOND INSTANCE-
THE "RIGHT of ADMISSION RESERVED":

Right of Admission Reserved is of course widely use in different industries, private and even small sized business.
It was meant for one singular thing and it was issued for one singular purpose.
To protect the entity, the business and the owner from BAD traits and behaviours that would damage and harm them.
In that light ANY customer that is a nuisance,
or under the influence of alcohol, drugged,
or a lunatic that pose a threat to others sharing that place,
A customer which level of hygiene is compromised that the odours will affect and offend others,
A customer refusing to simply wear the dress code that is allowed,
A customer that is below 18 years of age in establishments that serves alcohol or drugs or prostitution or whatever.
A customer that is fighting, insulting, disrespecting, disturbing or causing annoyance to other customers
A customer that is......."fill up the blank here with any of the long list of HORRID BAD behaviours" that affects others from which we all have the right to protect ourselves from"
BUT HERE IS THE THING:
SUCH HORRID and BAD BEHAVIOURS ARE FOUND EQUALLY IN ALL RACES, CLASSES, NATIONS,
And RELIGIONS.

Alienating an entire race from your business for not other reason than the colour of their skin has a well known name for it.

YES, DAMN RIGHT, RACIAL DISCRIMINATION IS FUCKING ILLEGAL,
And it is illegal everywhere in this world for one GOOD and VALID REASON:

Because out of every single bad, horrid trait and behaviour ever practised and exhibited by a human being and mainly more at this stage of evolution when the human race is walking out of its primitive and savage behaviour,
RACISM is the WORSE of them ALL.
It eats at the very core of all human decency and dignity.

If racism is your dominant paradigm and what you chose to live by and if it is what really underpins in disguise behind that "right of admission reserved" then I think that perhaps for that person it would be a wise choice to conduct the business in a more discreet manner as race thematics are a very delicate and complex matter to be venting it publicly *although everyone have the right to do so*.
I don't know, perhaps not, perhaps it should be me the one going quiet and discreet of my opinions.

In any case if what lays behind all is racist or is NOT racist There have to be plenty of wise ways to deal with those that call an escort and insult them and disrespect them... whatever is the race of the perpetrator of such appalling behaviour,
there have to be a way to deal with such situations.
I wouldn't know how to advise here as I HAVE NEVER EVER EVER BEEN INSULTED IN THIS business...NOT EVEN ONCE...nor by a white person, or a black person or a martian person, no one!!!
BUT I think that after all, putting the phone down for instance is the most effective way.
And it is SO SIMPLE and easy to do!!

Love to all.
Valentina Dibella.

ROAR LIVES AND IS ALIVE

Get with the program

Naledi and Valentina; a pretty thick cut above the rest.

@AshMod...you still here? Found the answer to your question yet?

Again I am going to say, people take the meaning of ROAR means only one thing and that is "whites only" I am a white male and can asure you that there is white WG's advertising on ESA that I am not welcome at. While the reason for their decision is their personal choice, I respect their choice and will not even try to book any girl working from that house.

Wow...I can only admire the intelligence, poise and great articulation with which Valentine and Naledie have made there points. Talk about hitting the nail on the head, that's a slam dunk right there! Could not agree more with the two of you.