I don't have kids,but I don't think it's wise to tell your kids about what you do.


it's like you are telling them,that if things gets hard they must do the same as you.as a lot of us we got into this business after someone mentioned to us about it.then we decide to see what's cooking.So don't be surprised if your kids one day decide to see what you getting from it.

Remember you reap what you sow

I believe I worked hard enough for my daughter NOT to do this and she has the qualifications to get a normal job.
One escort in this household is enough I always say.
Today I'm blessed for having a kid that sees the effort I made( even if it costs my health).
Been doing this to long and she walked a difficult road with me.
But yes that's just me.
Her doing what I DO is NOT a option!

On 2017-12-28 04:12:56 mike02 said:
On 2017-12-27 08:46:06 Climax said:

Which is totally understandable. Then you must just ensure you take this secret to your grave.

@Mike that's exactly where I'm taking this secret...

On 2017-12-28 11:14:31 Miss Barbie Doll said:
I don't have kids,but I don't think it's wise to tell your kids about what you do.


it's like you are telling them,that if things gets hard they must do the same as you.as a lot of us we got into this business after someone mentioned to us about it.then we decide to see what's cooking.So don't be surprised if your kids one day decide to see what you getting from it.

Remember you reap what you sow

Where is the #LikeButton?

@Hazel
You said "For myself I don't think I will ever be able to tell kids, I would not want to open their minds to trying the same thing, I do it so that they won't have to I hope..." is it that bad? You have also said in an earlier post I think that you are passionate about massage. ?

To each his own, but I tend to share Miss Barbie Doll's view. For me it is about keeping the respect of the child and most importantly protecting the child. I am a fiercely protective mother and have made a point of bringing my children up with good morals and without any exposure to this industry.

My children did not and do not, need to know how I earned the money that paid for all their personal and educational needs over the years. All that matters is that they know I worked hard at my "normal" job, in order to clothe and feed them and give them a very good education. Today they are all grown up, well adjusted, well educated, have good jobs and are productive members of society.

On 2017-09-12 04:54:26 last128 said:
all the girls here are in the industry for a long time, One year and longer. Will they leave. No. They need to make a living. So its a No.

That is not entirely true boo boo,not all are here to stay,prostituting is something we are doing temporarily to get back on our feet,some of us have plans,goals & strategies of how we are going to get ourselves out of this mess & re-align our destinies back to order.Some of us do desire to be married & have kids & being in this industry makes it hard to do that,so working hard and reaching those goals becomes a priority in order to get out and back to normal life style..However,it doesn't mean we don't meet punters that we are attracted to and feel would make a good partner,there is just always that thing at the back of my head that,this person may never stop punting.

So for me it is basically the issue of trust that makes me not allow myself to fall in love with a client but that does not mean I do not enjoy being with them,I just won't allow it to go further than what it is supposed to be.

Definitely a big difference between falling in love with someone in the industry or just loving someone. I think falling in love can become more complicated ... jealousy will become a big hurdle and broken hearts a given !!!

I was married to a an ex massage girl. Our divorce had everything to do with our differences and nothing with her job. You have understand that a sex worker is still a human with emotions, wants and needs and then she has her job and that is what it is...a job. What helped is that we discussed what she will allow and what not, and what will remain special between us. What I am trying to say is that it is not easy, but understand that MGs and WGs are still human there is a person behind the sex that has feelings like anyone of us.

I think as humans its really difficult to stop yourself from having feelings to someone you're attracted to and who you have sex with on a regular basis. A wg that I've been with twice a week for this whole year has told me that she is in love with me. How should I handle this situation?