Good post. Well balanced.
On 2017-05-18 12:54:20 Vanilla said:
The issue of free sessions in return for ratings is an insult to people like us who give their best and priorities building a healthy working relationship with clients.
It's not everyday that I'm able to work or start work on time, I'm a very dedicated single Mother and my family comes before everything. If I were to leave my house, pay an average of R1000 a day in a 4* Sandton apartment and give freebies my family will suffer.
I'm not the horny type so settling for being shagged for free and a rating wouldn't make sense at all, I get motivation to do what I do from money. After all, money is the reason I'm here but I go all out when it comes to "customer satisfaction" to earn it. Ratings don't pay rent or school fees so money first and a rating is a bonus, I already have enough ratings as it is.
Right now I have due reviews with my favourite regular that I highly respect (Naz), he always pays for the hours we spend and we have mutual respect. I have another outstanding one with TheRock so offering freebies in return of ratings probably makes sense to those who hardly get them.
When some guys see ratings they say they are selfies, girls say they were in exchange of freebies. A slap in the face for us who go all out because we value people's time and money. I usually just ignore such shallow comments but today I thought I can also voice my mind.
If I may say so myself I give the best blow and that's why I have innumerable regulars, apparently most men enjoy good blows as opposed to penetration and I deliver like nobody's business. That's where the motivation to rate me comes from I suppose, peace everyone.
Well said Vanilla! There are many sides to this dynamic. My point is the discord this creates amongst ladies and how those that do compromise standards reflect badly on us all and affect our daily lives within the industry!
On 2017-05-18 12:59:01 pantum said:
Vanilla !!! Don't worry about a 4 star ..bye a caravan then you can give me n freebie when i come for a braai ..lol
Lol, if you promise to braai fish and chicken I might consider borrowing one.
Well, I get to enjoy the luxuries and the rent usually comes from 1 generous client. Be it local or international, believe me it counts where you operate from.
Here is proof, clients who used to come to me in Hydepark and never tip they give me more than what I ask for in Sandton and it's not like the service has changed.
A few would just stand by the wall, pull down their pants and get a rubber. That's how I used to blow them, but since I moved to Sandton they are free to undress, get on the bed and even use towels.
Some guys would rather book a hotel in Sandton and invite me, I made money from working so hard in Hydepark but in Sandton they come for long hours and even all night.
On 2017-05-18 13:17:51 Veronica Franco said:
Well said Vanilla! There are many sides to this dynamic. My point is the discord this creates amongst ladies and how those that do compromise standards reflect badly on us all and affect our daily lives within the industry!
I understand your point Miss V
Another thing is clients lie, they think if they say so and so is offering certain services you will succumb to that or they lie to their regulars so that they hate you without even knowing you. For what, been trying to figure that out until I decided not to care.
Now I'm very very curious to know who offered a freebie in return of a rating, apparently this rating thing put girls under too much pressure.
If I were to advice gentlemen I would suggest they pick someone with pictures that are attractive to their eyes and try to build a bit of chemistry, that way you stand a better chance of enjoying the session.
As mentioned before, we can't click with every single guy we meet. Some ask the wrong questions and spoil the mood even before you start and it's not everyone who can still continue with a smile knowing that inside they are so pissed and irritated.
On 2017-05-18 12:58:23 Milo41 said:
Miss V, you are endless entertainment on this forum! Stay cheeky!
Lol, and what is the 'entertainment' factor/value for you Milo? Having fun watching us wrestle?
On 2017-05-18 12:58:23 Milo41 said:
Miss V, you are endless entertainment on this forum! Stay cheeky!
I totally agree, it's more of her intelligence that keeps me interested in reading her posts. Imagine having an intelligent and objective president like her!!! SA would be the world power I tell you
On 2017-05-18 13:59:38 Vanilla said:
On 2017-05-18 12:58:23 Milo41 said: Miss V, you are endless entertainment on this forum! Stay cheeky!
I totally agree, it's more of her intelligence that keeps me interested in reading her posts. Imagine having an intelligent and objective president like her!!! SA would be the world power I tell you
Lol, I can't handle a little purple world, nevermind a country or the world!
I am human (duh) having my prejudices and flaws like the rest! Having me as a leader would result in many beheadings....
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