The Wheel Turns...

...It gave me an opportunity, to doubly express MySelf...

On 2023-11-07 20:58:25 JackParrow69 said:
Lesson 1 - Don't pay in advance!

JP69

Whatever my feelings and what I know about this scenario, kindly become acquainted to the whole story, before making a comment.

Peace,
CGD

My darling angie. I know clients can be strange. I hear you sweetheart. Get your dignity back. Put the drama aside. Pretend to be dumb. Just pay back the money. It's ok. Sometimes it's best to chose silence darling. It's summer now. It's time to make money. Do it for yourself. Give him his money. We all go through this baby girl. Escorting is a crazy game. Why allow your name to be dragged like this. Give him his coins . It's ok sweetie. God will deal with him.

On 2023-11-07 21:20:33 Cunilinkiss said:
Don't play with Karma
You can keep money (that which is due to you as well as that part you convince yourself you are entitled to), but eventually, if you get the "why is this happening to me" feelings, perhaps you may benefit from being honest with yourself and admit you have just perhaps, been a bit selfish and there may be a message awaiting your acceptance

I'm a firm believer in karma...I did a travel in April 2022,2 hours.I Agreed to an eft payment. To cut a Long story short,guy poured me literally a shot of wine,I started feeling woozy and the anxiety kicked in. After 40 min payment still didn't clear,not even an sms proof of payment. I insisted on leaving, why stay if there's no payment..got home and there it came through, the payment. I called and asked to get his bank details so I could send the money back. A very well known punter ,kickass actually,,after I asked advice said send one hours money back and keep the rest, which I did, asshole went to absa,had the transaction reported as fraud and my bank account got locked. 2 months later the asshole called me begging me to get the police off his back. What????I laughed cos why would I go to the cops about R800 plus I'm an sp, they won't believe me...
Lol.

Karma is a bitch neh..
He sent me the R800 back lol plus extra.

On 2023-11-08 04:18:12 Roxy said:
My darling angie. I know clients can be strange. I hear you sweetheart. Get your dignity back. Put the drama aside. Pretend to be dumb. Just pay back the money. It's ok. Sometimes it's best to chose silence darling. It's summer now. It's time to make money. Do it for yourself. Give him his money. We all go through this baby girl. Escorting is a crazy game. Why allow your name to be dragged like this. Give him his coins . It's ok sweetie. God will deal with him.

Roxy reading your comment brought a sense of calm even over me, you seem an incredibly level headed lady

The proverbial horse has been thoroughly flogged here but my 2c if they could be allowed.

I believe the right answer is in whatever would prevent whoever is the perpetrator of wrong from doing it again.

WJ did book under false pretence and pushing for an activity which he knew was never offered. He himself doesn't dispute that he erred here.

Angie honoured the prepaid booking, but couldn't proceed because of the issues highlighted. There's also the matter of opportunity cost on what could have been another booking in place of this one, not just real expenses incurred.

In my view, if WJ gets his money back, doing this kind of thing again becomes a no-risk endeavour.

Angie COULD pay back some of the money and WJ is open to only getting back a portion of it. That's probably the cleanest solution here but that part is thoroughly up to Angie.

What is not under dispute for me is that there has to be some kind of penalty to prevent WJ (or anyone else) from attempting something like this again in future.

I also think Angie can't pay it back because she always posts statuses of not getting clients. Now I know why. Also I understand the need to steal now.

Okay so the third encounter was when he made a payment in advance without you knowing that it was him. You only got to know it was him when he rocked up at your door this obviously after he asked for bareback and you blocked him. You see Angie this is a case of a dude who yes has attachment issues. Whatever fantasies you sell to him he clearly couldn't get enough of those fantasies. The very best thing that you just have to do is to charge cancelation fees amd give the rest of the money back to him regardless of him rocking up at your door. Here's another look at things. If you are as professional as you say why didn't you involve the police at that very moment when he rocked up at your door, like why didn't you call the police??? So as you can see Angie like your retaliation to this whole thing was kinda juvenile to say. As an adult it took nothing to just give the guy minutes of your time when he was in your presence to explain that his ways and actions - you certainly don't condone- and then give back his money less cancelation fees.

On 2023-11-08 07:38:30 DickRich2 said:
The proverbial horse has been thoroughly flogged here but my 2c if they could be allowed.

I believe the right answer is in whatever would prevent whoever is the perpetrator of wrong from doing it again.

WJ did book under false pretence and pushing for an activity which he knew was never offered. He himself doesn't dispute that he erred here.

Angie honoured the prepaid booking, but couldn't proceed because of the issues


highlighted. There's also the matter of opportunity cost on what could have been another booking in place of this one, not just real expenses incurred.

In my view, if WJ gets his money back, doing this kind of thing again becomes a no-risk endeavour

Angie COULD pay back some of the money and WJ is open to only getting back a portion of it. That's probably the cleanest solution here but that part is thoroughly up to Angie.

What is not under dispute for me is that there has to be some kind of penalty to prevent
WJ (or anyone else) from attempting something like this again in future.

Yes , the focus is on the refund the lesson here is on the refund

WJ didn't learn the lesson ......... He tried again ............

If he gets the refund he will do it again to all the new SP's

His profile should be banned and his number is all ready reported

Going back and forth with refunds are very unprofessional